Infatuation differs from Love

Teenage hood is one of the fun path of life, Is a period where everyone love to show off what they have to influence their peers. This period children are easily influence by their friends, these factors that can lead to this peer influence include Andriod Phone or IPhone, also boyfriend and girlfriend play a path in the influence in such a way that every boy will love to have a girlfriend, same thing goes to the girls not knowing if they are in love or just have an Infatuate feelings towards themselves. At the age of 17, after I jst graduated from Benson secondary school, Lagos State. I, Smith was known to be mummy boy because I was more of an introvert due to my parent not that I was a fan of that because am a type of guy that loves to go out and make friends have some fun cause I love the social world but due to my parent it wasn't easy for me I hated it cause it was not allowing me to unleash myself cause they were giving a type of life I never wanted. Although other parent loves to use me for example to their children saying " Look at Smith, why can't u be like him", not knowing how I hated the life better still, I was the one admiring the life of other children their parent allows to go out. Due to what other parent tell their kids I noticed I began to have more friends to the extent some of them will come to my house and we will eat the food my mum prepared together and play visual games at home. Therefore, I became very close to three guys that my mum always see them coming to my house which were Samuel, Henry and Abraham. As time grew, my mum began to love the boys I chose for myself cause they were decent and responsible, this made her begin to have a change of heart toward that introvert s**t and begin to allow me go out little by little, which began by when they come to visit me, I will then excort them out of the house and then return back home without her saying anything. With time she then saw me save with them after they have passed true all her test and saw they were responsible and well trained. I was very close to Samuel than the rest because we had some things in common. While Henry and Abraham were very close to to each other because when it come to the matter of girls and woman their were on comparison to them to the extent they will begin to argue about which girl is more beautiful, butsy or even endowed. While Samuel and I who were just novice in the game of women will just sit down and watch our professionals to see who wins the argument. We all wrote JAMB and waited for admission for various Universities we applied for. Samuel, Henry, and I applied in the same school while Abraham applied for scholarship abroad Abraham had a female friend called Phoebe, who just came to the city to visit some of her friends in Lagos, So Abraham told us of his friend Phoebe, how their friendship started during their childhood time, said alot of good things about her which made all of us anticipated to see her, Abraham then chatted her up to confirm the time and location we could meet with her. Phoebe replied the message quickly base on the relationship they both shared in the past, she replied saying "On Sunday would be a good day nd time to see her cause she will be celebrating a birthday party with her friends". I was not happy with the message she replied with, because of the party aspect so I concluded not to go with them cause it was going to be my first going to a party, but Abraham and Henry never agree to my reason they try to convince me telling story of all the fun things that happen in parties but still didn't agree to them, not until I ask Samuel if he was going to go and he said "yes he will", then I decided to go so I won't be the only one left out meanwhile Samuel and I had somethings in common because he also was not the party type. On a sunny Sunday, which was the day Phoebe told us about party. We all prepare to go around 3pm, so Samuel, Abraham and Henry all came to my house because leaving the house without them is impossible with my mum. Abraham told her about the party which she first refused but due to everyone persistence she agree on one condition not to come late. Then, We all went for the party at Phoebe place where we saw the Phoebe, Abraham has always been talking about. She was breath-taking, so beautiful and endowned which caught the eyes of everyone most especially Henry. So she introduced us to some of her friends which was Janice, Laura, Joy and Gift which was the Birthday Celebrant, they were all as beautiful as Pheobe. We all celebrated together and had a lot of fun such as dancing, playing games like truth or dare, spin the bottle and lot more. The Birthday was one to enjoyed because everyone played along none was left ideal whereby everyone paired with their opposite gender. But the pairing lead to the generating of feelings between Henry and Phoebe and also Samuel and Janice, while the rest of us were just partying as friends. After the end of the party, we all went to our repective home. However, it would have been a pain in my chest if i didn't go with them cause the fun i had was one of it kind. One week later, Henry feeling for Phoebe grew very much in such a way that he kept on disturbing Abraham for her contact but he refused to give it to him due to Phobe been his childhood friend and won't let anything happen to her, and he knows Henry more than anyone, thought he was only obsessed for her seductive looks and busty breast. So he decided to go to Pheobe house to collect the contact himself. But on his way for the hunt of Phoebe contact, he meet Laura which was the friend of Phobe and ask for her contact which she gave him without any hesitate cause she already knows him from the Birthday party, so there was no need for further questioning. After getting the number Henry celebrated like he won a lottery which made us confuse if he was just having an Infatuate feeling because of her seductive looks according to Abraham or was really in love with her. After getting the number, Henry chatted Pheobe up and she replied him like she was long waiting for his message. So Henry, expressed the way he felt about her but she wasn't quick to response to the advances set on her by Henry due to some challenges she has faced from different kind of guyz during relationship. Although she had the same feelings for him both wanted to put an halt to enable her think about it. Two days later, Phoebe decided to agree to what Henry had told her after long consideration. Henry was very happy and informed us saying that "she finally accepted". But Abraham was not happy with it because he has always known Henry to be a guy that do not have affection for girls only to sleep with them, then go in search for another babe he could use again aside from Henry professing his love for Pheobe, Abraham had some feelings for Phoebe beyond their childhood level. So Henry began to impress Phoebe from the weekly allowance he received from his parent by taking her out for launch, shopping and also bring gifts such as perfume, foodies, and clothes when going to visit her at home. This made Henry and Phoebe relationship became envious to everyone even to her friends. Henry and Pheobe was so close to each other that going to each other houses was nothing to them and were also conversant with both parent. Meanwhile, Samuel and Janice who exchanged their contact on the day of Gift Birthday has already started their Love story. It was easy for Samuel cause it was the other way round compare to Henry, this time Janice was the one who chatted Samuel up saying she like him. Even though Samuel has already started having some feelings for her but due to his shyness he couldn't gather up the courage and walked up to her, rather Janice was the one that came. Samuel was always known to be quiet and shy even when we are together gisting as guyz and when asked if he has any contribution he will just say that he has nothing to say or better still he noddes his head meaning he understands and has nothing to say. So when he came and told Abraham about his new catch which was Janice, Abraham was surprised that how can Samuel that hardly speak with us could sum up the mind to approach a ladies and tell her he likes her, so Abraham couldn't believe all what he said until he brought out his phone and gave it to Abraham to read their Conversations between him and Janice. After reading the conversation he then congratulated him because we as guyz once you are able to talk to a girl and she agrees mehn others guys will see you as Bigger Boy cause u now have a girlfriend while others don't have. Although all this Love story between Henry and Samuel could still be an Infatuated feelings just like how Abraham feel of Henry relationship. On a Sunday evening, Henry decided to take everyone for dinner which it didn't go well with me knowing fully well that most of the guyz will be going to eat with their girlfriends and it will be just me going to occupy a table with no one joining me, quite alright i will see food to eat for dinner but i will be bored and i can't come and inconvenince anyone to talk to me when they will be busy talking to their girlfriends. This may me not to follow them so i did my dinner at home thinking of how and where can i get a girlfriend cause the oppression way to much from my peers, even though our reasoning was not on the same side.