To sum it all,love is a choice not driven by ”feelings”. It is a choice to put another ahead of yourself at all costs. It is a choice to suffer on behalf of another for their good.
Love is being in action and sacrifice. If you do not have the mindset of sacrifice for another, regardless of whether or not they deserve it and the commitment to do it forever, then you are not loving anyone. You are seeking mutual fleshly satisfaction that is shallow and will suit you only as long as you are content and it benefits your desires.
Think that love is as a journey to someone’s life. There will be up and down, rough roads and closed roads. And it’s these various components that make the journey memorable. You’ll be hurt at times and that’s how you know it’s ” WORTH HAVING ”.
Filter out all other emotions from love and see how beautiful and satisfying it would be. Sadly, we can’t. We are born as ’ humans ’ and thus, LOVE hurts!
if you decided to love someone, love them with all your heart, give everything you have without any expectations of getting anything in return, you will be happy.