THE CONSEQUENCES OF BEING AN ANSWER

Many pray for an encounter to meet with you and I, but we belittle ourselves thinking we're worth people's time and energy, After getting close to you, knowing you and the likes there is still something hidden about you that is in the in-depth of your heart, you feel worthless around people, you want to be an introvert who don't care about others, but a part of you want to let out, it wants to be accompanied by someone, want to be loved by someone, want to have conversations and make friends but your mind and desires are being ruled by your immediate needs. Nigeria Happened. A young energetic guy mid 20s discovering that the world he is in doesn't care about his feelings or character, all it desires is his worth, what do you have to offer, not about educational background, not about skills but how much do you have to offer. The world has gone soo cold to the youth. The youth doesn't even want to be leaders of tomorrow anymore they just want to see tomorrow. They are living with the attitude of get it young at all cost . At first it looked like peer pressure but now its a normal traits , no one cares about your skills, about your achievements , all the world cares is What's your net worth. Are you worthy of being an Answer or Not.

The world used to care about skills but not anymore , get money by any means then you can talk as a king, you can behave as you please. A generation that isn't pleased with the Little begining no more..

A generation that says being an Answer is about How much you bring to the Table.

Many young guys today are in a cross bridge. Nigeria has failed them but they respect their parents and the intent of their heart is pure.

Illegal things are the ordeals of the day, no one sees them as illegals but as survival tickets, the easiest route are the no one talks about but are quite dangerous at the end.

I want to be an answer to my prayers but nothing seems to be working, getting a well paying job is like gambling with your health, 9-5 , short sleep and traffic at the end 80k .. feeding 40k, tp 30k . Nothing is left.. js it with this you want to start a Family when the job isn't paying you well to feed. The youths are not Lazy, they were never lazy , they didn't just have the right motivations.

As a Teacher in a private school 7am -5pm ,pay is 40k a Month in 2026..

Below minimum wage (77,000), this job won't bring a young guy in his mid 20s into a stable life rather into debts..

People keep saying venture into business, not many are successful in business or hand work.. some people prefer to be under certain dictate so as not to make mistakes..

If everyone where into business. Then no one will make profit cus all will be selling .

You are an answer to someone secret prayers that's why everything comes in different ways, the pain, the frustration, the tiredness, the push, the guilt , the pressure and the fear. Those are the consequences of being an Answer.

Let me start first The Pain: you know deep down, you are bigger than what you are presently but there's nothing you do that shows positive impacts, you want to jst do it the right way to get it right but everything seems to be working against you in all Ramifications, it jst seems like all hope is lost. You feel discouraged, disconnected, downgraded and down below earths value, nothing around seems to work , everything becomes a torn in the flesh, a little sickness feels like a death sentence, little things becomes a death trial because you are at the brick of a being an Answer, YOU ARE YOUR OWN ANSWER'S.

We've all prayed for a Destiny helper at one point in our life, but little did we know we are our own Destiny helpers, If a person doesn't see his situation as a problem then there's no problem, but as soon as he has established the facts that there's an issue then there's a push to a solution. The risk of losing at some point brings a lot of much more than the actual pain. We've risked alot not to lose few relationships and sometimes losing those relationships were necessary but we don't want to feel pain, we discard pain as a traumatic event or experience, we've analyzed pain as an impact to reduction in productivity and didn't think through it. Pain is a drive to success, is. A push to betterness , a desperate attempt to achieve great things. One aspect of pain is we tend never to forget the reason behind d pain, some what like a cheating ex, being scammed, being forgotten, being discarded, being ass whoped. The reason when you were betrayed pains more than the betrayal itself sometimes we use the statement when phones are stolen , the sim is whats paining me not the phone.. in real sense the content of the phone, the details, messages in the phone is of much value than any other thing there is.. Pain has been one of the reasons