“any man can grab a woman by her hair, throw her on the bed and rip her clothing off. sure he can tie her up, call her a 'b***h' or a 'slut' & have rough s*x with her. but that is not dominance. that's rough s*x, maybe even violent s*x. if she is into it, it can be fun, but that is still not true dominance.
true dominance is the ability to whisper softly in her ear then observe as she obediently removes her clothing. methodically. one piece at a time. watching as she kneels before you offering her entire self to you. willingly, without hesitation or reservation. she will show you her most vulnerable self without embarrassment or shame. you will know that nothing makes her happier than making you happy.”
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Matthew's hand was around my throat as he had me pressed up against the wall in o
