I had had terrible experiences, especially with my first relationship that I thought will end up in marriage, but I never knew it was not in God's agenda for my life to settle in marriage with the person I thought I love, but it was a deliberate orchestration to teach me a lesson to discover my purpose to have some basic knowledge to guide youths like me who would not depend on God to make the right choice when it comes to marriage. It is dangerous to follow your selfish desire to make choice, if you are on that track, quit and start all over again with God. Deuteronomy 28: 28 The LORD will strike you with madness and blindness and confusion of heart. My friend Onah Jonah Onah whom I squatted with, in his uncle's house during the period of my experiences with my ex-fiancée could attest

