WHY SO SAD

Expectation is the root of all headache —  William Shakespeare     Words by the great writer Shakespeare………………. Actually the main cause is our expectation not expectation it’s our over expectation on anyone. People get totally dependent on the one whom they trust more than their parents. If an unsuccessful man looks at his past what does he sees? He remembers every moment when his mother and father gave him motivational speeches and which he ignored by saying it’s useless and dreaming about building his own empire. Instead of giving importance to his parents he gives more importance to his girlfriend thinking that life is only till her and when she leaves then they realize that what was their mistake that gave more importance to her. Don’t think that I am not a person like you all I am also like you all. I chatted with my crush and that part of the day I founded the best but wasted my rest part of the day by thinking about her, thinking that on what topic I will talk to her , thinking that how can I make her , thinking just like you all. It’s been two days and I am waiting for her reply to come actually it’s like hurting. See now I am sad because her reply has not yet come; now you people will think that is this any reason for being sad, she might be busy so she could not reply. This is the main cause guys if you look at reason why are you sad then you will find that your reason is silly and has no definition. What a percent majority of peoples does is just expects and wastes its many days by waiting for her/his reply. Now people ask “what to do of feelings, how to control them”. Feelings this word sounds so good actually feelings are like ocean you can’t control them man but you can balance them by not over thinking. The best age is the age when we are child because we don’t get shy in saying anything and what we feel like we just say it without any hesitation and this is the reason why a child is always happy and what we do when we grow up we just keep the things in our heart and think about it and just destroy ourselves from inside. One of my friends said that she loves being sad. Now the reason behind this problem could be that she is very much hurt from inside and someone has broke her trust, I can understand what destruction breakup causes to anyone’s feeling but you cannot stop your life by thinking about it, the best way to get out of sadness is by sharing to your close friend whom you trust because this can help you lower your pain. Why does a breakup occurs? Because at a point both the couples does not understand each other and there are many more reason for that but I will mainly discuss about it first. They do not share the same thought and end up saying that “I hate you”. Parents (powerhouse of expectation) Sometimes our parents don’t understand us and they want us to be like a superhuman who focuses only on studies and they think that other professions like writer, dancer, singer etc. these are nothing in their eyes they want us to be the way they want. Every child is like a potato all different in shape and has different talent if his own but these words are just like a use and throw polythene in front of our parents. I am not saying that every parent is like that but there are some. Sometimes a child gets confused what to do and what not to do and even if he has to go to washroom someone from behind ask “where are you going?” There are different type of parent I am going to list some:- 1.    Expecting more and more and more… These are the ones like I wrote above; they just think their child to be the best and they pressurize the child every time by giving examples that if you will not do this then this will happen and they want their child to be simple and disciplined in this cruel world and they are the ones whose child do not get good marks in exams. And from here the whole comparison starts; now they go one level up and start comparing the child with the one who brings the good marks and tops the class with higher percentage and they want to be the best. 2.    Free ones They do not tense their child and always encourage them in every field and these are the ones whose child gets good marks in report card coz there is no headache to child and what he does then he does it with full concentration,…………………….. So what did we learn? Actually marks doesn’t matters what matters is learning because marks are just number games which tell you what’s your position and if you see history of some great peoples what will you find…. That either they left their school in between or they had a great will power. Stress Now, it is some another subject because it happens to everyone but some people overcome it and some people find wrong ways to overcome it. People have stress about their life actually not on life it’s on death. Everyone know that one day will come when they will leave this world but after knowing everything then also they act like nothing is going to happen I mean that live your life strong but don’t try to reverse the nature cycle because it’s the truth. People get addicted to alcohol and other smoking materials to overcome stress but they do not understand what it will cause to our health and they are not able to solve their any problem in life because they find smoking as a best thing…………… Stay tuned for the next chapter.