why people marry many times

Usually any love ends in marriage.I used the word usually as love may not end in marriage due to scores of reasons.In the conservative societies there is the prevalence of settled marriage or through negotiation between two human beings.In the western world there is co-habitation or living together.Cohabitation is an arrangement where people live together like a married couple although they don't marry and engage in sextual activities.In Scandinavian countries cohabitation began although in Mediterranean Europe there was dominance of religion but eventually it also spreaded .In 2015 ,60% of the children in Portugal was born to unwed couples.There is a tendency that co-habitation couples finally get married. whatever might be the background the relationship break up for a number of reasons.There are people who get married for the second or third times.The main reason for this is that people look for a solution to the reasons for which they break up their marriage through another marriage. They want that new person is free from all the shortcomings. It is not that the opposite does not exist.I read about a person who was too young and was workoholic.So his first marriage ended in divorce.His second marriage lasted a bit longer. It has been seen that a couple whose age at the time of marriage was 30 for the groom and 27 for the bride, after a long married life in 2025, they were 103 and 100. The secret of this long journey is mutual trust,loyalty, respect, sharing happiness and sorrow. Another reason for the breakup of a marriage is disillusionment. We apparently see qualities that exist in a person, be a man or a woman, from a distance.But in close contact these qualities disappearand like dark side of the moon negativity also of an on dominates. So again the marriage breaks up. There may be a link between money and the breakup of the relationship ,especially in developing countries. Here, if the bride is bad and has a bad character, the marriage can be broken for the groom's money. Another reason for getting married can be freedom from loneliness. People cannot live alone. Life is not for a day or two. Life has to be lived. Loneliness can lead to depression. However, it must be remembered that no person is perfect in all aspects. People are a combination of both good and bad. If two people can share everything in their life,they can live a long life together.My father was a physician.He had seven children.He didn't receive handsome money but he emphasized on the children's education.We attended public universities and earned highest degree including PhD in physics and economics.Our mother maintained the family.Life in that time was not complicated . Social and religious values played a pivotal role in family ties . But now man or woman go outside for work . There are complex social interactions that lead to inappropriate relationship and ultimately marriage ends in divorce.The couple remains reluctant about their children.It is the children of broken family who suffer.Another contemporary problem if one of couple has addiction problems.If you are addicted to h****n,phensydil or any narcotics you will not be able to continue conjugal life even you will not be able to do your job whatever hierarchy either in entry or mid-level you are in.Drug is a major hindrance of mental activity.In any job you need to do some routine works.You will have to lead,plan ,organize or control.If someone is addict these activities will be halted and the disciplinary action against the addicted person is inevitable.It also ruins family life as it is one of the major impediment of conjugal life.Drugs act like a cigarette.Chigerette contains nicotine which creates an urge in blood.So you can't help but to take drugs that ruin both official and family life.Time comes in life when someone becomes unemployed.Under this circumstances social helps is needed to ward off break of relationship.Family members play supportive roles if they are in a position to help the siblings.In this situation both husband and wife need to exhibit patience mustcope with the meagre resources.We save in our good time and spend from our savings when need arises.In the develope world a person is entitled to retirement benefits or Government support at the old age.They are allowed to travel and pay utility bills at reduced rates.They receive free Medicare or can stay at care homes . These are all helps in emergency period that help them to tackle problems and strengthen family bondings.So far it was discussed the conditions in which people become vulnerable and were compelled to break the relationship.On the other hand there are forces which keep the problems at bay.It is absolutely depends on the persons .If he is prudent and ready to sacrifice he will survive all obstacles otherwise he will have to swim against the stream.That is not expected.