Another Normal Day

"At your own pace."

I've heard that so many times. From my parents, my teachers, my boss, and just recently from my friends. This idiom has been tacked at the end of sentences for my issues like: "It's okay if you still live with me and your mother, there's plenty of time to move out in the future. Be an adult at your own pace." and "It's okay if you don't graduate this semester, study at your own pace" and "Work at your own pace." and "You will find someone, be patient. Have a relationship at your pace."

Sounds great! No pressure. But sometimes I feel like I need to speed things up a bit.