No Means No
Some etiquette in swinging is more restrictive than normal behavior. Everywhere you go to swinging locations, No means no. In other words if you tell someone NO, you are not interested…that is it. You should not need to tell them twice. This is a strict rule, especially at clubs and venues allowing single males to attend. Each person gets to do what they are comfortable with. There is no need to do anything with someone just because they ask. Most swing clubs will eject anyone breaking this rule.
Being a swinger, or in a swinging situation, is not a permit to touch people. Yep, at a swinger cruise or convention, everyone there is looking for fun, but that alone does not give you permission to touch anyone. That does not mean, on the dance floor, if you guide your wife to acci
