Relationship

Figure it out and call for help Don’t assume that he will be fine, when ever you notice that there is a problem always try to figure out what the problem is and give him/her support as much as you can, make him/her feel that he/she is not alone in the problem, that way you are showing him/her that you care and will always be there for him/her. Recurve your relationship or marriage When you fine out that your partner is doing what he/she shouldn’t be doing it’s fine that you get angry but will be bad of you if you let your anger get to the level of where the welfare of your relationship will no longer be your concern. Always remember that challenges are part of the day to day life, that we as an individual lives, the challenges are meant to make us stronger in that face of life, so you quitting will only mean that you have failed, recurve your relationship today be it marriage or friendship, make it work. It doesn’t matter who is right or wrong, all that matters is how valuable your marriage or your relationship is to you In every marriages or relationship there are things that each partner hold on to, what ever that may be the chase, the value in which you place in that your marriage all this years, are you about to just throw it away just because he/she didn’t say am sorry, it’s true that sorry hells but I want to ask you this, between sorry and the happiness that you get from the eyes of your partner, which one will you choose, the choice is yours what is it going to be, the value of your marriage or sorry? Choose wisely Make it happen, you will have to be the one that will make it what you always wanted it to be Just as it is not every one that are born with silver spoon, so it is in marriages, there are people that are not getting what they want in marriage. You will agree with me that there are some person that view marriage from afar and they love the things that they see in marriages, only for them to go into it and they find out that it’s not what it’s seems to be, but the truth is that you have a row to play in your marriage as a man/woman, anything that you did not do for your marriage to get better you will not find it in your marriage because marriage is just like an empty land that you aqua, on till you start building on the land it will remain empty, every beautiful house you see there is a hand behind it, make your home what you want it to be it’s begins with you. Create positive mindset towards your partner What you think of him/her has a way of affecting your relationship, you must try as much as possible to create a positive though about him/her, Try to love what he or she loves Loving what he/she loves make you both flow very well in your relationship, such as giving him/her support in his/her line of business, that will give him/her a positive intellectual and attitude towards that business of his/her, have you ever imagine business in the hands of love, taking care by love, does everything by love, how lovely do you think that it will be, knowing that love is the greatest of it all Always give in your listening ear no matter what may be the case First thing First, You need to listen to him/her, that way it’s shows that you have a great value for your relationship be it marriage, and that also gives you the scenes of maturity over that problem. By giving a listening ear to him/her, it’s means that you are not only reacting to the situation at hand but for the wellbeing of your relationship Put in love first before hurt and what happened In a relationship two things are always involved, no matter how loving are caring a relationship is temptation always show case, bringing hate and hurt to that relationship that use to be so lovely, but you should understand that Satan is not happy that your relationship floris in the hands of love. Do you want to know why? The word love is not one of the attributes of Satan so Satan will always fight against anything that is not of him, but you knowing how Satan operettas and putting love first in your relationship or marriage, it’s gives you upper hand in making your relationship or marriages work. So you must always put in the love of your relationship, the love of your marriage, and the love of your family first, by so doing you are not letting Satan to put in his seed of hate and hurt to distro your love life with your family Don’t give up on him or her Giving up on him or her is only showing that you don’t value what you both had in your good times, so the best way is you stick to him or her no matter what. You must always bare in mind your good times with him or her by so doing you are giving your self the reason to love him or her more, and you are not letting the seed of giving up on him or her into your heart, that is the spirit of love, for love doesn’t count wrongs rather it right the wrong and show up how perfect we can bePray for him or her Prayer is the key to what ever thing you can think of on earth, sometimes I love you is not enough in a relationship, the word Love is not just a word, there are things that make this word effective such as sacrifice, even the bible say it in the book of John 3:16 - For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life, so you must learn to offer the sacrifice of praying for him or her For sometimes it’s not about what you know or what you do or even how you do it that makes it work, it’s highly spiritual, so you pray for your relationship or marriage Forgives him/her before he/she ask you to Forgiveness Take out the hurt and place the future and love before you Make him/her your talking partner discuss your relationship, your fear, your happiness his/her wrongs, correct your wrong impression about what ever that he/she may have had agent you UNDERSTAND THAT MEN AND WOMEN ARE IN TWO DEFFERENT WORLD The worlds of women are DEFERENT from that of men, so the both world’s has there language and their understanding outside the normal understanding of the words that you know and understand. The words that we use in our normal day to day life are not the same in the world of relationship, though it’s the same words but not the same meaning In a relationship you must know that, when a woman ask you to live her alone she may be saying stay with me or show me how much you truly love me, which means that you should be with her, as the matter of fact in the world of women they ask you to do the opposite of what they want from you, which you must not do what they say, it means that when they say go away they are as well saying stay with me, such as live me, means hold me. Until you understand the language that women communicate with in the world of relationship, you can not relate effectively in a your relationship, mind you, men also have there world and there language that you as a lady also needs to take not of, in the world of men every thing is very easy, they don’t take things too hard life is mint to be simple. There are many things that you as a man must understand about the worlds of women and also you as woman, that will help your relationship work out. THINGS YOU MUST KNOW IN A RELATIONSHIP BE IT MARRIAGE OR FRIENDSHIP . There are ways that men do there apologies, so you as a woman you must understand that you will not always get what you know, like I said earlier men worlds and that of women are two different world all together as such men don’t normally take things to heart, the misunderstanding that two men will had and settled between them self almost immediately that same misunderstanding between two women will last for as long each party are not ready to lay down there eggy to say sorry, but in men will settle without saying am sorry but the sorry will come in a different form. Such as John did you watch the march between Manchester vs man city, then the one that was offended will now make face As if he didn’t hear him talking, now the friend understand that it’s because of the misunderstanding between them earlier Ron, so he will now say this to his friend, John so because of the little thing that happened in the morning, you are keeping your face like monkey’s face, ok am sorry, and that is it they have settled there differences and they good, very sample