To have something you should stop running after the thing but creating a perfect habitat for it

I wish I had known that earlier, I once experience something strange that make me acknowledge the reality of life, while small we always liked to catch butterflies and have them for us but I had my kid brother that didn't have to run after them but they where coming to him .we tried and tried but anytime we ran after them they turn to fly more further until we decided to observe my kid bro way of doing, he used to plant very attractive flowers and by the end of the day so many butterflies 🦋 came over and from the I understood that running after a thing scare 😱 it away but giving it the habitat it deserves make it convenient in your presence