The shoe bin was out getting some sun on the porch, and Umm Badeea was cooking something which smelled just like my dreams on summer nights. I forgave Umm Badeea and her seven sons for every moment of discomfort I’d lived through inside their house. I continued to call it “vanillia” as Umm Badeea had pronounced it at the time, until I started working at the co-op and discovered it was pronounced “vanilla”. O delicate vanilla, come to my aid. What shall I tell him to make him come? Shall I send him a text message? Something like: I have a secret you will want to know. Don’t forget about our appointment. Or: I’m begging you! Many of my other research participants have had to cancel. You’re my last hope. Don’t skip our appointment. My professional life is in your hands. Overdone. Not re

