I have come to discover in my little journey advancing in life that the major cause of constant conflict is unforgiveness. This often happens in the form of accumulated grieves, which could make a man very hostile and violent.
There is nothing you can do (provided it is an act) that does not or will not open you to hurts; friendship, leadership, family and even sports open you to hurt.
One of the things I have come to discover that causes hurt much more, even tearing down friendship is a false accusation. The offender may not react but keep the grudge. When grudge accumulates into grudges, the results show up in the attitude of the person being offended in the form of sudden withdrawal from relating. Such a person becomes aggressive to simple issues and before you know it, strong resentm
