I have learnt a lot from my love experience and I am still learning. However, the revelation in this book spans beyond my love experience. Though thoughts of my experience hurt badly, God used it to teach me the nature and price of love and the reality that He is the first love and until I love Him first, I am only subscribing to loving and not being loved back, betrothing a wife and another man lying with her. Sometimes the reality of love is proved when you are not loved in return. I have to discover true love based on the deliberate choice of the one who loves rather than the worthiness of the one being loved. This kind of love goes against natural human inclination. It is a giving, selfless, expect-nothing-in-return kind of love.
From counsels I sorted in the course of my ex-relations
