How to walk alone in our life (part 1)

In our one life we meet with so many people. All they come in our life for different reasons and purposes. Some of them are to create moment or to make a fake relationship or some of are to teach us or making us a better person and human being in our life and some of them are who wants to make us happy hence brings smile. So obviously not all persons in our life are equally important, we make prioritize and decide who is the most important and who is the least important(specially those who always hurts us and make feel irritated also called toxic people) in our life. But all of them are temporary none of are permanent even our Shadow leave us in dark moment. But sometimes in some phase of life or in some point of time in our life it's very much important to stay alone and not getting socialized. Considering above teaching we understand that in dark phase or dark time of our life no one stays with us while in golden time everyone stays with us. It's very much important how to deal with bad time or dark phase in our life. Loneliness, Depression, Negativity or Negative Thoughts, Anxiety all these are accompanied with us during bad phase. We need to remember that bad phase of life is part of life but it's not whole life so if we treat life as a wave(Sinusoidal or square) then Good or Golden time along with positivity is upper part of wave while Dark or Bad phase of time with negativity is opposite lower part of that same wave. Either we can be dependent fully on time expecting that with time everything will changed or good time will come in one day or we need to know how to handle it. Reasons why people don't stay with us: When we fall in hole of life then nobody can lift us up from the hole. So while staying in upper surface of life as other people also stays in same surface of life therefore they know how to live that life and how to deal and handle all those problem or situation that might have been arise in upper surface but when we are not same page with other people then it's difficult for people to understand our situation and problem. There are lot uncertain things and uncertainty we might be facing. There are lot of storms those we need to handle. All those storms changes us and make a mark in our life. Until or unless people who faced all these Storm and knows how to battle and conquer with it and how to be win at end of the day, none of them will be prepared to face all those storms. All those storms which blows through our life can affect us including our mind and emotional state and also our life. As we become disconnected in every level (including physical, mental, communication, relationship) from other people in this dark phase of life therefore a long distance is created between other people's life and our life. As a result of that we gradually become unfamiliar with other life except our life. Exchange of all elements (like experience, memory, feeling, sharing thought) between two or more than two lifes become stopped due to disconnection. Our life creates it's own unique way or life path which is completely different from others life. Only we are familiar with this path of life, no other than us is familiar with this new life therefore we must have to walk alone in this path. This unknown life completely flows through a unknown path and this unknown life teaches is so many new things that no other can be taught. All these teaching prepare us for our future life and make us a better human being. Living this new stage of life can change us our perspective about life and reality completely and can also change our point of view and perception about world . We start to look at this world in completely different way. This new life also completely changed and shapes our inner self and inner world as well. We are only evidence of each and every moment that's happening in our life. Essence and importance of this walking is in this life journey we only interact with our new life in each and every level. In receiving mode: While we are in receiving mode life gives us almost everything. In receiving mode we get almost everything from our life. Everything starts to be manifested and executed in our life. At physical level we only can receive any materialistic things like car, house, money, property etc. But at higher level we receive various teaching and learning from our life. Not only that but also we may receive different form and format and state of life and their meaning as well. Receiving Level: Apart from physical and life meaning level there are various levels exist such as Mental Level, Emotional Level, Awareness level, Energy level. Emotional Level: When we are in receiving mode in emotional level we go through various emotions. In emotional journey we understand meaning of different type of human emotions and also we learn how to emote ourselves with anything. We understand various mood and emotional states and their meaning. In what phase of our life what emotions experienced and what are impact of all emotions in our life and ourselves. We also understand emotions of other human being hence we able to connect emotionally while communicating with other person. We understand other human being through empathy. Mental level: When we are in receiving mode in mental level we able to understand our mind and their elements in more better way such as understanding our thought process and their Nature, understanding mental health, various functioning of our mind, understanding how the way mind works. Energy level: When we are in receiving mode in energy level we start to understand that everything in this universe is Energy. Even our thought process, emotions are energy even we are also energy. Like energy our thoughts and and emotions can also be transferred and transmitted to other person in form of brain wave. When we communicate we actually understand and feel energy of other person and according to that we express and show our energy. Energy exchange happens during communication process. Awareness level: When we are receiving mode in awareness level we become more aware about everything which are surrounded and which are happening around us and we also become aware about our society and environment. We extract various meaning from anything and we have different opinions and perspective about everything including any situation. Receiving Channel: A proper channel or track is required through which we can receive anything from our life and universe. There are two opposite ends or nodes and This channel or track connects this nodes. Receiving Channel: These two ends or nodes are Weselves and Life or universe. We need to shape our life in such a way that we can easily connect ourselves with our life with proper vibrational frequency. Life is always unknown and mysterious. If we unlock ourselves to receive every level of teaching from our life then we level up ourselves to next level. When our consciousness and conscious mind is ready and in steady mode to receive everything from life and to push it's limitation and boundary then our life started streaming infinite Dimensions and infinite elements towards us including our mind and consciousness. We start opening ourselves and we get immersed ourselves in ocean of life and in ocean of universe. There's no difference between us and our life at that point of time or moment. Receiving Portal: Universe and Life both acts as receiving Portal. When we are able to reach and entry into this portal we open new door in our life hence starting new chapter and innings in our life. In this portal our self and mind and consciousness including every elements such as Thought process gets new shape and new form. We can never get back from this portal into our previous stage and form of life once we entered into this portal. Because all new dimensions that arises in new life after entering into this portal can never get deleted immediately but will be deleted after a long period of time after changing ourselves. But we need to remember that we need to have enough ability to receive everything from our life and universe hence entering into this new energy portal also called Receiving Portal. Ability to receive: If we are not in same frequency and in same page then there will be a unmatched. Due to this unmatch and absence of matching frequency negative effect and negative manifestation hence negative result or consequence may be arises. Our life is not monochrome but it's combination of muticolours. What the color our life will get it depends on how do we color it and what color we give to it. We are painter of our own life. Colours of our life is mainly dependent on how we live our life, what are bunch of emotions and moment we have and what type of person we allow in our life. We live in world of colour, everything around us is colourful specially Nature for example Sky, Flower, Grass, Mountain, Sea or ocean etc. Every moment in our life has unique color. Moreover our choices, Success, Achievement, Habits, Daily Life or Lifestyle, Decision making power, Actions all these determine colour of our life. Emotion and Moment: Our thought process determines our emotions and emotions has great impact on colour of our life, the person who is always happy and peaceful having good mood and positive feeling will always make his or her life more beautiful and colourful with his mood and emotional state. One who carries good energy and positive thoughts hence positive emotions not only make his or her life more colorful but also other person who meet with him or her get influenced by his or her emotions hence getting others life more colorful. Like energy color of our life can also be transferred and spread to other person's life as well. We all know that life full of collection of a bunch of moments so enjoying every bit of moments and making better it with our joy, happiness positivity can also make our life more beautiful and colourful as every moment which is part of life becomes more colorful with our positivity and emotions. Persons we allow in our life: The persons we are dealing with always and whom we face all the time and with whom we communicate have great impact and influence on colour of our life. The person whose life is not so colourful hence living in darkness can never make us joy and happy as their energy is negative therefore they always share and transfer negative emotions and energy so we can never feel positive and Happy with all those toxic people so meeting with dark life will always make our life dark whereas meeting with colourful life hence meeting with person who is always happy will always make our life more beautiful and colourful. Other factors: The man who is successful in his life and achieved everything in life will always motivate other person and teach other how to be successful and how to find happiness hence making our life more colorful with his Charisma. Decoding of Colour: Colour of our life and meaning of colour is majorly determined by our thought process, mindset, how we are looking at our life, Perception about life, emotional level, how we define our life etc. In different ages and times colour of life of a same person can be changed due to changing all above mentioned psychological factors including Maturity level. At the same time colour of a life at different levels and different area or aspects can be different for example colour in financial level and colour in education level and colour in family level and colour in social level can be different of a same person's life as all these level may be varied and might not be in same state and equal level like one who is financially poor can have good friends circle and good social relationship in other hand one who is good in education may not have good friends circle and having bad family time due to family issue or internal problems or one who is good in earning or income means who is financially stable may not have good family time. So different colors are distributed in different areas or level of life that makes a life multicolored. So now we have come to realize that color of our life is not absolute and constant it's a relative factor and this factor is surrounded by different psychological factors of a person. All these colors help us to know our life in a way when we change the way colour may not be same so colour can also be changed. At the same colour of a life of a person can be interpreted and decoded by other person differently as any two persons can never be same so their Thoughts, Perception, Emotional level, Maturity level, journey in life, perspective and all other psychological factors will obviously and undoubtedly be different. Colour of past: Colour of our past and how we lived our past and what are feeling about our past life always determine colour of our present life and present moment as present life is product and consequence of our past life and past journey. Without having past life no one can come to present life and present moment so in order to reach present moment we must have to overcome our past life and past experiences. Any bad or dark color of past life always teaches us and is a sign of pain or painful life. So Dark color of our past life always indicates what wrong we have done so far and indicates all mistakes those took place in our past life. Decoding of Colour: Darkness in our life is evidence of all mistakes, pain, bad experience in our life. Sometimes in an old colour of our past life we find ourselves in a new way. In Darkness of life sometime we feel we lost. We manifest something in our life through colours. More we live our life and more we face our life more we create various colours in our life. Colour divides our life into different parts and segments. We all have grey shades in our life. Our life needs all colours to be completed in every aspect and area. Colour of hope, colour of happiness, colour of joy, colour of peace are almost same in other hand colour of sadness, colour of pain, colour of sorrow are almost same. Different colour has different impact and different importance in our life. Each and every color is important in our life. All colours make us a complete person and a complete human being. All colours give completeness in us. We always discover new colour in our life through this journey. Sometimes we forget or we want to forget bad and difficult colors in our life. Sometimes colour repeat itself again in our life and sometime our life calls same recurring color. We all make mistakes in our life. No one can say that they have never made a mistake in their life. So mistake so very obvious in our life. Mistake creates difference between clever person and foolish person because Clever never repeats same mistake instead they learn from the mistake but fool repeats same mistake again without learning from it. Mistakes make us perfect gradually. Toward journey of perfection each mistake is a milestone or each mistake acts as a ladder. From each mistake we learn and we become more near of perfection and after facing final mistake we reach the perfection. How much time we hold and carry any mistake and how soon we leave any mistake that depends on our intelligence level. While we leave from any mistake it means that we have understood the mistake and learnt teaching from it. Phase of Mistake: Every mistake has a certain phase and time slot. For a specific time any mistake runs and longlasts. Phases of Mistake can be divided and categorized into 4 parts. There are 4 phases of Mistake which are 1. Running phase: When we do any mistake and it runs. 2. Understand Phase: When we come to know and understand and realize our mistake or fault. 3. Consequence Phase: When we suffer result of our mistake. 4. Teaching Phase: This is final and the most important phase. In this phase we learn teaching from our mistake. In this phase we understand and realize what mistake is trying to teach us. Types of Mistake: There are various kind of mistakes which we do in our life. 1. Conscious Mistake: We are conscious about our mistake. We know that what we are going to do is a mistake still we do it. 2. Unconscious Mistake: We are not conscious about our mistake. We even do not know and aware about our mistake. 3. Instant or Spontaneous Mistake: When we get and suffer result instantly of our doing mistake. 4. Non Instant Mistake: When we get and suffer result after a short or long term or period of time but not instantly of our doing mistake. Apart from there are also two mistakes which are 1. Immature Mistake: When we do any mistake in our immatured age or when mistake happens due to our immaturity. 2. Mature Mistake: When we do any mistake in our matured age and being in matured state when we do any mistake. Essence or Importance of Mistake: Mistake is part of our life so we need to accept and embrace every mistake in our life. Every mistake acts as a ladder of success for a successful person. In journey of success mistake happens. Category of Mistake: There are 2 types of Mistakes which are 1. Intentional Mistake: Mistake which happens intentionally. 2. Unintentional Mistake: Mistake which is done without our intention. For unintentional Mistake Forgiveness can take place for the person who did it but there is no forgiveness when it is intentional Mistake. Essence and importance of Mistake: In journey of success successful people take mistake as teaching and learning resources use it for learning purpose. More mistake takes place more successful people upgrade himself into next level. Source of Mistake: There are various sources of Mistake such as 1. Awareness 2. Knowledge 3. Determination 4. Negativity 5. Information 6. Experience Awareness: Being not aware of anything or any situation can lead someone towards doing mistake. So we need to increase our awareness level about everything happening around us. Knowledge and Information: For not having sufficient amount of knowledge and information about any subject or topic can sometimes be cause of happening mistake. So we need to increase our knowledge about any subject or topic. Determination: Doing any task or work without determination can sometimes lead us towards doing mistake. We need to be determined. Negativity: Negative Thoughts and negative energy and due to lacking of positivity and positive thoughts and energy can be sometime cause of doing mistake. Experience: For not having a lot Experience about anything or any situation or any unknown place or circumstances can sometimes lead us for doing mistake. In order to avoid doing mistake as much as possible we need to avoid and eliminate all these above mentioned 6 elements of mistake from our life. Then only we can say good bye to our mistakes. Areas of Mistake: 1. Situation 2. Subject 3. Other people. Sometimes we have to suffer result of such mistake for which we are not responsible means we are not even responsible for this mistake. Other person did this mistake but we have to suffer the result of that mistake. Most of our mistakes take place thorough our action or karma so of we can rectify our Karma or can change our Actions or Actions plan then only we can save ourselves from doing mistakes. Isolationship is completely opposite of relationship. Where in relationship we are bonded and connected with other person, All friends, family are around and surrounded by us in isolationship there is nobody around us. We become completely isolated from other people. In this stage and phase of life how we live and spend time that's the most important thing. Where relationship ends from that point isolationship starts or begins. We are out own companion. We become completely isolated being. Signs of Isolationship: When we are in isolationship stage there are some signs or features that's being observed they are 1. We are no longer social being 2. We spend most of your time with phone or Internet. 3. No one wants to stay with us or feels good and positivity from us. 4. We have almost no friends. 5. We don't have good family time. We go through everything in our life. We face and experience everything and meet with a lot of people in our life. In our external world and external reality there are a lot of distracted things which are surrounded by us. Instead of having a lot of materialistic things and being fulfilled all materialistic needs and demands somewhere we still are not complete from inside. Something is still missing from us and from our life. Nothing in this external materialistic world can create a complete cycle in our life and can provide a full shape in us. As a result of this voidness inside of us there are lot of suicidal case are happening in nowadays. Instead of doing a lot things in life and instead of being successful in life and also instead of achieving all things in life there is still a voidness inside of us we even don't know how this voidness is created and from where this void comes. We subconsciously create voidness inside of us that's why we are not aware of this voidness. Our life carries this voidness and after a long period of time in our life voidness is created. Void Awareness: Being aware of void from very beginning and initial stage can save us from suicidal thoughts, negativity, depression and anxiety. So it's very important and essential to be aware about void. Even when void grows inside of us and in our life in this process of we be aware about voidness in middle of time or middle of our journey when voidness didn't grow completely and voidness gets it's complete shape and form then also we can recover us and restore ourselves in more easy way. But after getting it's full and complete form and shape it becomes very hard and tough to get back and back up ourselves and recovery and restoring process becomes more complicated at this stage. Growth of Void: In long journey of our life there are so many obstacles that we face and for not knowing purpose of our life we always become tired in this full of distracted world. Being too many times tired is one of the reasons for creation of voidness. In long term effect of our journey voidness is created and gets it's complete form and shape. In rat race we all are running and chasing our dreams and goals without being aware true meaning of life and realising idle and eternal life as a result of that we meet with voidness at end of journey. Once we meet with it, after meeting with it, it never leaves us and our life. After reaching to voidness we completely loss ourselves and become lost. We don't even know where to go ahead in our life therefore completely loss our destination. This void space can never be filled with anything outside of this world. When we live in void we can't live our life to the fullest extent and can't enjoy every bit of moment. Flow of void: When our life flows and we flow with our life in this path we always create void somewhere in life so there are a lot voidness being created in whole path of life, in long term effect all these voidness comes together in collective form and this group or collective voidness as a unit comes in our life in any point of time or any phase of time that's how we let our voidness to be in full and complete form therefore getting it's completeness. Call of voidness: When it's call of voidness or when voidness calls us in any certain phase of life then we have to leave and exit our normal life and we enter into the deep voidness. This is inner call because through this call we completely become isolated and disconnected from the external world and start living inside of us with lot of negativity which is created due to voidness. This is also called transformational call as we completely transformed and our life completely transformed from one state to another different state. This call is positive to negative Call in other words this call is normal to abnormal call. Spread of void: This void spreads from one area to another area. Initially this voidness creates and starts from our mind and inner self and then start spreading into our psychological level as being result and sign observed like depression, anxiety etc and reduce our concentration level in contrary increases negative thoughts then affecting our daily lifestyle and life pattern also Affect our area of action and finally start consuming ourselves. Void spreads into different levels like actions and lifestyle and physical and mind and emotion level and finally self level. Transfer and transmission of void: Void transfers and transmits from one area to another area or one level to another different level Area and zone of void: There are different areas and zones where voidness gradually creates like our Mind, Life, Emotions, Self, Actions. All these areas should be treated very carefully and I'm such a way so as to minimize voidness as much as possible. Signs of Voidness: There are some signs or syndromes which are being observed while Voidness starts and grows in someone or any person they are following: 1. Depression, 2. Anxiety, 3. Negative Thoughts, 4. Low energy level, 5. Lower concentration level, 6. Hopelessness, 7. Lower Connectivity. All these signs are being observed in psychological level of a person. Lower connectivity means not being able to connect with other people, 8. Poor communication skills (as connectivity level is lower that implies not much of very communicative person therefore communicate with other people in very lower level. 9. Self centered (self centric) spend a lot of time with own. 10. Less social. Solution for voidness: I recommend any clinical psychiatrist appointment fro proper psychological counseling session with case history taking and if needed also taking medicine in this case. Amplification of Voidness: Voidness in each and every area such as our mind and life etc amplifies after it initiates and started growing. In each area void amplifies itself gradually with time, as more void amplifies more we become exhausted and more become tired, more hopelessness grows and develops inside of us. Vacancy or vaccum are being created and developed in each area of our life when Voidness amplifies. With amplification of Voidness everything around us in external and outer universe becomes worthless and meaningless. Transformation from meaningful life to meaningless life what is the mostly responsible in this journey is amplification of Voidness. We all have home where we live and stay and moreover which is the basic need among 5 basic needs but the most interesting fact is that most of the time we live inside of us this is inner place or inner living place. This is invisible and non physical home and living place because unlike outer home inner home can't be seen or physically lived. But non physically we always live in this inner living home. Charecterstics or features of Inner living home: 1. This inner home doesn't exist in outside world. 2. This is non visible home. 3. We can't physically live in this inner home. 4. We can't experience this inner home with our 5 physical sense organs. 5. Any other person or other members can't stay in this home, we are the only person or member who can stay and live in this inner home. 6. We are only owner of this inner living home. 7. No one like any guest can't come into this inner home. 8. This inner home can't be rented. 9. We can't never leave this inner home until death or before ending our life. Negative and polluted Inner Home: When we look into our inner home we can feel and realize that there are lots of negative Thoughts and negative energy in our home. Our inner home is fulfilled with negativity like depression and anxiety etc, negative and polluted thought and negative self believe. That's the only reason of why our Inner Home is lacking positive thoughts and affirmation and positive energy and positivity like self believe, self esteem etc. We basically live in full of negativity and negative energy. As our Inner home is full of negativity, negative Thoughts and energy that's why there are lot of toxic energy in our Inner home which makes our inner home toxified and full of toxicity. Energy of inner home: Due to having a lot of negative Thoughts and negativity like depression and anxiety etc our Inner home is fully possessed by negative and toxic energy. Reflection of Inner Living Home: How are our inner living home is equipped is directly reflected on our nature and affect our personality, Body language and moreover how..........