dear side chick

Dear side chick, the reason you feel that the man is a good man and his wife is troublesome and impossible is because you have not lived in the same house with him, you haven't had to deal with inlaws interference, no one is expecting good behavior from you, no children and chores wearing you out. You have not had to do calculations to manage the little money you were given for upkeep, you didn't have to manage the little things you have,you didn't have to wait for him to come home at midnight.All you know is the good life,they will take you to a cozy restaurant or hotel for relaxation, you enjoy the best meals served on the bed, you move round to see the best places, shop for you, probably change your phone every eke Market day,give you money each time you hang out, no stress at all, enjoyment and fun all the time,no inlaw stress, you don't have the need to impress anyone in other get the score of a good wife or be yourself and be labeled a bad wife, no children to stress you out, no chores,just the two of you in your world, enjoying yourselves. so why won't you call him a sweet man.Dear Married women,if you like, don't insist on your husband giving you these treats every now and then, be there doing kiliwi nwachukwu, keeling yourself with chores and children stress, make him employ a domestic staff so that you can be free to hang out with him, have these Beautiful experiences,enjoy his money to the fullest, look hot,keep him so busy with activities the way side chicks do, show no mercy for money, chop the money, go and lodge in a cozy hotel too, give him that side chick vibes, stop saving the money for them, they didn't ask you to, so that one unfor tunate woman will not be somewhere calling him a good man while you're at home slaving away, wake up woman and eat his money, it's your right,no one should enjoy the fruits of your labour.Credit to queen j