Jade " We understand that it does hurt to save yourself for someone only to find out they didn’t do the same. But what I want to do is to tell yourself that you saved yourself for yourself, and not him. You saved yourself for you because you wanted him to be your first and give you that great experience that we all get from our partners. Trust me, the best s*x is with your partner and no one else. Plus, you also don’t want a virgin guy; they give horrible s*x, just saying. What you need is someone who will know how to handle you." Lenna’s advice leaves me speechless. She is right. If Avery takes it that she saved herself for herself just to have a great moment, then she will feel better. As women, it’s sometimes important to put ourselves first before we put others. “ Lenna, have you

