LOSING YOU

They say"you don't know the essence of someone until you lose them" i did not know the meaning of that word until an unwelcoming event in my life.One might think it was heartbreak but trust me when i say it is far from that.It was a tragic event that changed my life Positively and Negatively. This incident affected me a lot but it made me strong. Before i go deep into the story why don't i introduce myself. My name is Asher Maxwell and i was born December 19 2006. My birth was quit a surprise to everyone including my Parents not only because everyone taught i was going to be a boy but because i was born way after my elder sister.My Sister,Ryan was 13 years of age when i was born. My birth was totally unexpected by most people. Even when i think about it am always surprised but at the same time this is God's doing. Most men are always bothered that they don't have a male child or male children but for my Father, Jackson Maxwell this was not the case he was happy with his two lovely daughters and they were his pride.My Mother,Luna Maxwell had the same mindset as my Dad. She felt that having male children was only going to give her more problems. My Mother is a God fearing Lady,she believes that as long as long as you serve God nothing is impossible and she makes sure that she teaches her children to follow through that same path. My Father lives in a foreign country and comes the last month of the year to spend some days with us and then he goes back. This was a common routine for my family,i wasn't bothered about it because it had been like a tradition since before i was born. My father was already a citizen of Czech republic. While growing up my parents made sure i never lacked anything a child have.My sister was my best friend because we were together almost all the time and my parents made sure we attended the same school until they realized that the distance from my house to my school was too much so i was withdrawn from the school but still this did not affect the relationship that me and my sister had. Few days after my sister got married i started visiting her for the weekend because i was always complaining about how much i miss her,Few months later i relocated to her place and i was schooling there as at that time i had four years left to graduate from high school and my sister was pregnant.