The unplanned child
I am Ayomide and this is my story
In the family of Mr&Mrs Ademoye
There was a child that wasn't planned for it all happen this way:
Bisi!! Bisi! Come here dont go there it is dangerous you are going to get injured Mother calls
Bisi : mummy am coming
This girl is stubborn mother lamented
Jerry go nd bring bisi for me
Ok mummy jerry replied
In the family of Mr and Mrs ademoye they have three kids; they are Jerry, Moses,Bisi. The first born is jerry followed by moses then bisi. They were living happily. Mr ademoye his a business man and Mrs ademoye a typist a computer operator
On a faithful day, a little sickness get hold of Mrs ademoye and gradually gradually it began to get worser and more severe than they could imagine this is how a happy family begin to face some challenges.
Mr Ademoye tried all he could to get his wife better but it was all to no avail. He sold some of his belongings
But still the sickness remain adamant. This family are really in a tough time.
Daddy!!Daddy!! Mummy has started she just passed out said jerry.
Mr ademoye quickly pick his car key and drove straight to the hospital the doctor attended to her and she was stable. Mr ademoye keeps buying drugs and paying bills for his wife to get better
*One blessed day was the couples
Hwedding anniversary they celebrate it and that night they had s*x the wife conceive with sickness in her but she didn't know .
*Honey I don't know how I am feeling
Said the wife.
What is the problem he asked then she said I am feeling........... .. Then she passed out.
Honey !!Honey!! He get his car key and take her to the hospital and found out she is pregnant.
"I think I told you she mustn't get pregnant right? The doctor said .
Sir my wife is pregnant? Mr ademoye ask.
Yes the doctor answered.
Jesus I have made a mistake so doctor what is the solution he asked.
Then the doctor said the mother and the child are of 50/50 chances is either she abort the child or she and her child dies because I don't ? she will be able to give birth to this child alive .
*sir!! Oh God please help me oo mr ademoye exclaimed.
**Honey are you ok? What is the problem why aren't you happy? His wife ask.
Nothing am fine he answered.
Then he said I am sorry love
Why ?she asked .
Wait
What was the doctor report she added.
Am sorry pls forgive me her husband pleaded.
What happened she asked what was the doctor's report?
He said the doctor said you are two weeks Pregnant.
She smiled and said so am carrying our child?
He said yes and added the doctor gave us option that because of your health is either we abort this child or both you and the child dies.
Then she said I will give birth to this child even if it cost me my life I will be happy to die but my child will live.
He then say no you won't die can't we just abort this child u will will still be able to give birth again pls.
She said she will give birth and not abort anything.
He pleaded let abort this child pls. I don't want to loose you she said but you want to loose your child. I don't mean that but my opinion is we can let this one go and u can still give birth again. She now ask but what if I die through this sickness even though I abort or I loose my womb and am not able to give birth again or I die in the process of aborting or did the doctor said after abortion the sickness will be gone ?ehhn.
Then he starred for a while and said no. Pls I don't really want to loose you our kids are still young plus this one i won't be able to take care of them all by myself pls??
Mrs Ademoye said so that why you want to waste this child dont be selfish pls.. Give this child a chance to live.
Then he said in confusion and anger "suit yourself I dont even know what to say "then he went out.
*The pregnancy is now 7month almost due. Every morning she do wake up and look at her belly shedding tears and viewing how her baby will look like.
Honey why are you crying her husband ask.
She said nothing then her husband sit and console her.
*Gently, Gently, we will soon get to the car the husband said.
They get to the hospital and the nurses attended to her and take her into labour room. And the nurses said push! Push! Push!she kept pushing until she finally give birth at Nov 9 2005 on Wednesday to the beautiful girl narrating this story .
I am Ayomide Ademoye.
Then after giving birth to me ayomide
We all went back home non of us dies and my the whole family are happy.
But the sad part is that the sickness is still in mom's body and every day it get worser to the extend that when AYOMIDE was born for a whole day she didn't suck because of the mother sickness which is breast cancer so they have to separate the mother and the. child they took me to my grandma house . She was. the one who took care of me till I stop breastfeeding before I came back my mom was dead so that is how I Ayomide Ademoye was born.
then after coming back I wasn't able to eat much food so I become so thin am always falling sick up and down my dad still continue to try all his effort on me I began to grow though the space my mom was there but I don't mind I still didnt give up I kept fighting for my live then the very surprising thing that happened is that my Dad can give me out with the way I was falling sick .
hmm mm
it all. happened this way ;
one blessed day we were in Lagos living happily then I saw one man and his wife in our house but I don't know who he is really I began contemplating until my dad tell me he is my uncle he is a pastor he brought his wife to greet my dad has his elder.brother according to the. Yoruba culture.
after they exchange pleasantries,my dad introduce me to them and as I saw his wife me a naive and young girl I loved her and wanted her to be my mom instantly I began to get close to her and tell her that if she is going to her town am going with her she agreed as my dad saw that I was really in love with her, he agreed with what I wanted and let them take me AYOMIDE . AYOMIDE was so excited to go because she thought she has gotten a new mother but she dont know what await her in future and the kind of family she is going into she was just excited so they went with AYOMIDE to port Harcourt they got there AYOMIDE was. still glad until it get dark that is night time she began to long for her dad but they pet her and that is how she start living with her uncle for like three years her uncle's wife usually treat her well but after does years things began to change between her aunty and her . Her aunty was not able to give birth so she dont have any child but what is surprising about her is that instead of her to be treating AYOMIDE well she did
not she beat her always so one day something surprising happen
*"Ayomide Bring me that spoon" aunty call AYOMIDE replied ok ma
can't you be fast? the aunty lament
here I am said AYOMIDE
as she gave her aunty spoon and her aunty found a dirty spot on it she become angry and lift AYOMIDE up i air and then let her fall on her belly then she get on her and start beating her , and beating her she cries but her uncle wasn't at home to save her. She beats her to her satisfaction Ayomide was still gasping for breath and trying to be alive after the beating she finish the food and didnt give AYOMIDE food that day she cried and regret why she left her dad she cried and cried .The next day , her aunty also take a precious thing that make AYOMIDE ugly and unhappy from AYOMIDE and this was what happened the next morning they woke up . And Ayo aunty call her and say Ayo!! then she quickly reply maaaaa she run fast .
On getting there her aunty say she didn't hear Ayo answering her then she draw her closer and say "see you this demonic girl I know you are possessed with evil spirit am going to cut this your hair that is making you look beautiful and different then she took scissors and trim her hair shorter. Because AYOMIDE was a beautiful and hairy girl. and her hair makes her beautiful and different from all other African girl that is why her aunty was jealous and trim it for her.
Ayomide started crying for her loss but she has to just accept it she began to barb her hair anytime she offend her aunt her aunty will either beat her or report her to her uncle and he will scold her and that is how her aunty does