At first, I was reluctant in committing to seeing him.. because I felt I still needed more time to unravel his personality and get to know each other better but trust me, TED is the most persuasive human I ever came across.. He literally made me drool over the idea with his sweetness..
I agreed finally and spoke to him about getting official leave off work so we could be together conveniently without loosing my sources of livelihood of course ..
After many failed attempts at getting my boss to consent and approve my leave I communicated to TED about having to wait a little while before seeing each other..
“TED, I couldn’t get approval” I said to him over the phone while sulking..
Oh dear! He responded sounding slightly sad.. I guess we just have to wait it out.. even though I would have been totally pleased to get you out of that office and punch that boss of yours in his gut for holding you back.. away from me... he joked..
I laughed at his silly remark and promised to find my way around..
I’ll keep trying .. okay?
Sure baby! I’m ready whenever you are ......
Awww how sweet! I teased him!
We continued taking every other day and the feelings were getting deeper..
Surprisingly!!! He never asked me to send him naked pictures of me or suggest that we have s*x over the fone or indulge in any indecent activity for that matter.. which was very flattering because I know these traits are typical with some men!
This made me even more drawn to him.. more comfortable and trusting with him..
No matter how terribly bad my day was, the moment I hear his voice.. all the toughness of the day flies out the window instantly ..
He was that sweet and his laughter was contagious.
Our communication continued for at least 3 more weeks before I was finally granted few days off from work!
Eyyyyy! I twerked after reading the official email..
I grabbed my phone and called him to tell him the good news and he was equally excited.. so we made arrangements on when I would be taking the trip down to meet with him.. we fixed a date.. and arrived at a mutual conclusion.
I spent long nights thinking of what he looks like in person and how we were going to be spending time together.. I thought about if it would be awkward to finally meet with him.. I even thought about the possibility of maintaining our relationship and friendship after seeing each other eventually.
I pondered on a whole lot actually...
TED on the other hand was so confident that this next huge step we were taking was going to bring us together even much more..
I don’t know where his certainty and confidence came from but he sure was certain about it...
He spoke to me lovingly about how he would hug and lift me around when he finally meets me! He spoke like a little kid that was excited to meet Santa.. I couldn’t be happier at that very instant...
In his words.. I don’t know what I would do when I finally see you.. I have so much I want to do and say to you in person.. I want to have you so close to me.. I want to touch you and hold you.. I want to be sure you are real and not just a fantasy..