Chapter 29 You’d think that being married to a sexually adventurous woman who was into kinky s*x and being a member of a swingers’ group would be more than enough for most men, especially when those things were combined with having a well-paying job, two kids, and a great house in the suburbs in a high-achieving school district. I wasn’t most men. I wanted more. That more was having a girlfriend, which I could have totally had with my wife’s permission because we were in a de facto open marriage and the girlfriend was my ex-girlfriend from high school, and the same woman who was the third member of our throuple two years previously. de facto But I was stupid because I wanted to keep my girlfriend secret. Maybe I was keeping her secret because she was keeping our relationship a secret

