Dan and I went for counseling yesterday. It was better than the first time, Dan did really put in a lot of effort to stay calm and collected. He didn't yell or get annoyed, and he certainly stayed till the end, unlike the previous time. Malcolm did most of the talking, he asked questions frequently too but they were constructive and they were more about healing than the past details. There were times that Dan would go quiet because the words were painful and Malcolm will try to cheer him up. We ended the session on a good note with an assignment from Malcolm. He tasked us to always ask each other about where the other person was on the issue every morning before leaving the bed. He said it is a very effective method that has worked with several couples. He also advised us to join some of t
