Jay I closed my eyes; Evan’s words to me were perfect. His words felt like a rom-com script, and we were the stars in the movie. “I am far from perfect when it comes to my own relationships. I can give advice and help others with theirs, but I’m a mess when it comes to mine,” I told Evan. “No one is perfect. If they are, then they are a robot and not human. We see things from a different perspective when it comes to others, but for ourselves, we end up being goofs,” Evan replied. “You know what scares me about us?” I asked him. “What?” Evan inquired. “If things don’t work out, I don’t just lose you; I lose your family, Evan. Believe it or not, they are very important to me, and I don’t want to lose them,” I explained. Evan sighed and said, “Jay, I cannot predict what will happen; no

