Hey, this is my homepage, so I have to say something about myself. Sometimes it is hard to introduce yourself because you know yourself so well that you do not know where to start with. Let me give a try to see what kind of image you have about me through my self-description. I hope that my impression about myself and your impression about me are not so different. Here it goes.
I am a person who is positive about every aspect of life. There are many things I like to do, to see, and to experience. I like to read, I like to write; I like to think, I like to dream; I like to talk, I like to listen. I like to see the sunrise in the morning, I like to see the moonlight at night; I like to feel the music flowing on my face, I like to smell the wind coming from the ocean. I like to look at the clouds in the sky with a blank mind, I like to do thought experiment when I cannot sleep in the middle of the night. I like flowers in spring, rain in summer, leaves in autumn, and snow in winter. I like to sleep early, I like to get up late; I like to be alone, I like to be surrounded by people. I like country’s peace, I like metropolis’ noise; I like the beautiful west lake in Hangzhou, I like the flat cornfield in Champaign. I like delicious food and comfortable shoes; I like good books and romantic movies. I like the land and the nature, I like people. And, I like to laugh.
I always wanted to be a great writer, like Victor Hugo who wrote "Les Miserable", or like Roman Roland who wrote "John Christopher". They have influenced millions of people through their books. I also wanted to be a great psychologist, like William James or Sigmund Freud, who could read people’s mind. Of course, I am nowhere close to these people, yet. I am just someone who does some teaching, some research, and some writing. But my dream is still alive.
This is a brief introduction of myself. If you are interested in knowing more, read my articles or take a look at my pictures. Do not expect too much, and keep your sense of humor.
If you’ve ever seen a romantic comedy, you’ve likely watched two people who find a way to be together — no matter what obstacles stand in their way. The reason is always simple: They’re in love. But off screen, love isn’t always enough to make a relationship last.
এগিয়ে যাওয়ার উক্তি গুলোর মূল কথা হল পেছনে না তাকিয়ে জীবনকে সামনের দিকে এগিয়ে নেয়া। শুধু পেছন ফিরে তাকিয়ে থাকলে অথবা এক জায়গায় থেমে থাকলে জীবনেও পিছিয়ে পড়তে হয়। জীবন একটাই আর সফল জীবনের মানেই হল শুধু এগিয়ে যাওয়ার গল্প।
আপনার জীবনটাও যেন এগিয়ে যাওয়ার আর সাফল্যের গল্প হয়ে ওঠে – সেকারণেই আমরা আজ কিছু এগিয়ে যাওয়ার উক্তি অথবা এগিয়ে যাওয়ার বাণী নিয়ে এসেছি। যাতে আপনি অতীতের গ্লানি মুছে থেমে না থেকে জীবনে এগিয়ে যাওয়ার জন্য অনুপ্রেরণা পান।
HE, SHE AND I ON FACEBOOK
One of my friends asks me what the difference is between the stories I write and the texts I post on Facebook. He thinks they are the same; there is no difference between them.
Yes, between these two types, maybe there is no distinction, I write them the same, but surely the time they reach the reader makes all the difference. The published text goes through many hands: the proofreader, the editor, the techno-editor who makes his printing product, the printer, the driver who loads the volumes into the car that distributes them, the bookseller...
For a long time, I suffered from low self-esteem. For many years, I had no self-confidence. I didn't believe in myself. I was not enough for any person who came into my life. I always missed something, there was always something I had to change. Something was wrong with me. They came, took and left. They didn't like my eyes, my hair, my freckles. They didn't like my job, my dreams, my words. My friends, my thirst for travel, my quiet moments, my silence. All this made me distracted---cold and cold.
I stopped hugging myself. I stopped stretching my arms. No one stayed for sure, no one left for sure. With each passing one, I felt more and more confused. They wanted to be here, but not right now. They wanted to leave, but not today. It wasn't the right moment, they weren't ready, the time was bad. The connections so far have been exhausting, they had other priorities. They compared me to their wives, the exes or the ones they dreamed of. I was trying to become their ideal. To give them everything they wanted. It was never me.
I closed myself more and more to the world and became impenetrable. I felt nothing, nobody's. Pathetic. Small. To a point where I began to discover what really got to appreciate it. To respect. They taught me to gather myself. They taught me to take care of myself. To rely on myself. Each subsequent meeting brought me closer and closer to me. I do not regret.
At the moment I feel light. There is no trace of my past left, because I was able to take everything I had in time. I have always said that I study my lessons diligently