Judgement
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👉This is for every woman who ever perceived judgment.
&👉 For all the women who lost so many minutes of life breaking others down.
Why do women bring other women down?
Why are women so judgemental towards other women?
Why can't you rejoice in other women's success & happiness?
Why does so many women fail to accept others & fail to support each other?
Why are most women so selfish?
Why do women talk more crap about other women than good?
Why do you women have so much pride?
If you haven't walked a mile in someone else's shoes, who the hell gives you primision to give and share your opinion about others?
Some of us are walking around with more scars than friends... How sad and true is that?
When last did you do something good towards another woman? When last did you talked Good about other women?
Why do you criticize women who have less opportunities or different time frame than you?
When was the last time you gave another woman tribute instead of a fake smile & ongoing judgements?
How often do you respect another woman's perspective?
Women who don't build each other up instead continuously bring others down, will find it difficult or even unwanted to Grow or become completely happy.
So many women don't have anything else to think or talk about anything else except their view of others. Damn.. Your lives has to be so monotonous.
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How can you consider yourself more successful or beautiful if you have a personality of a Dolt? 🙆♀️
No-Matter how educated or rich or beautiful or talented you are.. The fact is you will never be happy, positive, satisfied or successful without a desire to be someone who constantly focus on building other women up instead of wasting your time on bringing them down.
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Wise, successful, happy, beautiful & powerful woman will never shatter another woman's heart & Confidence.
You never know how much strength it took for someone to get out of bed that day. How many times they faced rock-bottom or how much will power it took for them to continue life.
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When they talk about others to you, they will talk about you with others.
Don't tell me what they said, rather why they feel so comfortable saying it to you?
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Essentially, there are three main reasons women are nasty to other women:
Because they project their unwanted parts onto the other women — especially their fear, envy, jealousy, suspicion, resentment, rage, anxiety, or lack of self-esteem and confidence. Or simply Because they can get away with it — as a sport, fun, panacea to boredom, delight in spite, or because their lack of curiosity/tolerance, & they probably don’t like people anyway or-
Because they don’t have the interpersonal and intrapersonal communication skills to recognize or alter their behavior.
It leaks out in our manipulative quest for power and control or satisfaction in spraying viciousness towards another woman.
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4 Main Reasons they Judge Others-
They are insecure. When they are insecure and/or unhappy with who they are, they try to put other people down. Though it doesn't usually build them up when they put others down, they do it anyway. They want to feel good by making others feel bad sometimes unconsciously.
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They are scared. And intimated by other people, Two women see a prettier woman as a threat and they make fun of her appearance . They also may fear those who are different from them and may judge them just because they are unlike them.
They are lonely. They might use judgments to bond with other people, but these bonds are based on negativity. The bonds you have based on judging others are superficial and are not likely to contain true substance.
They are seeking invaluable & Cheap easy to get to - 'change'. When we want our own lives to be different, we are quick to judge the lives of others. It's possible for them to have a psychologicallack of knowledge.
5 main damage Judgments Do
Hurt other people. This might not always happen. If the person never finds out what they said, they're in the clear, right? Not necessarily. Things have a way of coming back and hurting people in unexpected ways. Think about what you say. Would you say that to his/her face? If not, it's probably best left unsaid (and un-thought!).
You will feel worse about you. When you judge others you feel bad yourself .
You bring yourself down when you bring others down.
Perpetuate stereotypes. The more judgments out there in the world, the more stereotypes get formed and people are trying to live up to (or avoid) the ideas of what they are "supposed" to be. Whether stereotypes are based on race, gender, spirituality, ethnicity, appearance, or any other attribute, they are bad news. They force people (including you!) to feel as if there are standards they must meet instead of living a free, happy life. Don't be a part of perpetuating stereotypes with your own judgments.
You Put negativity into the world. You rationalize your judgments, they are not bringing anything good into the world. They bring you down. They make the world a sad place. Can you imagine if we were all accepting and loving of one another? Can you imagine what the world would be like if we tried to understand other people rather than judging them?
🌟 If you're judging others, you're probably judging yourself pretty harshly as well.
Skinder
Skinder is baie mense se #gunstelingtydverdryf.
Party mense kan nie wag om die nuutste skinderstories oor ander aan hulle vriende te gaan oorvertel nie.
🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃-It's easy to judge.
It's more difficult to🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 understand-
Jy weet nie wat die omstandighede of situasies is van ander mense nie.
'' Rhetoric is the art of ruling the minds of men.” “Let their speech be better than silence, or be silent.”
“Rather practice to say the right things in the right place, & keep the unsaid still unsaid.
“Be sincere; be brief; be seated.''
Your utterly lost when you react or fucus on others rather than WINKING and building your own unique beautiful empire thats all about, Growing, Leveling the F#ck-UP & focus to become just about the best version of yourself.
Let them paint you as the villain in their story.
Let them tell people that you were too much.
Let them tell people that it was all your fault.
Let them tell their evil deceptive lies.
Because the truth is, it doesn’t matter how it ended, it’s ended.
And what they choose to think about you isn’t a battle that you need to worry about fighting anymore.
All of those moments that you went out of your way, made plans to surprise them, poured your heart and soul into loving them, and trying to convince them of your worth and how you felt;
You get to wipe your hands of all of that now.
You KNOW your truth, and the truth ALWAYS comes out.
If someone’s lying about you or the way you were,
If someone's twisting the truth to make things look a certain way because they know the truth will make them look bad;
If you just keep trying to fight their lies or try to have the final word, you’ll not only waste more time and energy on someone who doesn’t deserve it;
But you’ll also end up looking like the same desperate person that they are.
So just let it be, let it go.
Keep your chin up and hold your head high, because you know the truth.
Don’t let their noise destroy the peace in your life.
Remember what really actually matters.
And remember that the truth ALWAYS comes out.
And even if it doesn’t, the people in your life that really matter know the truth anyway…
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