Be your own mirror

As women we have a tendency of looking down ourselves after the end of long term commitment, making bad choices by finding another man who's going to turn your world upside down and make your kids distance from the only person they have hope too . being a single woman who came out of long term commitment I have learnt to love myself, find myself and above all forgiven myself that what ever happend I wasn't in control of the situation. made peace with the fact that I have to stand with my own two feet. the most important thing I have learnt is that no matter what the situation my be God is with you . he will never put you in position and leave you and God gave every women the powers to communicate with when you don't know where and what to do with the situation you're facing . when you being hurt by the person who you never thought could turn your world upside down eventually your heart stop. thinking it will never beat again until it realises that it beats more naturally an faster when it feels the love of loving yourself enough an the peace within you.. yes eventually your heart will be caught by someone else's even though you never thought it would... we need to understand that even if your heart can be broken hundred times it doesn't mean it will never love again. at some point you end up laughing at yourself that I never thought I could go through that good feeling again heart is amazing thing that no one is in control of. The most amazing thing to be heartbroken once. you begin to understand life completely (what I meant) is that you understand that you have to love yourself more put yourself first before the other person who you in relationship with. you able to give a person some space, you understand that you not the mother to person, you don't own them an they don't own you, appreciate more , love them accordingly an most of all leave space for self love. love doesn't choose colour, age, place it happens anytime , love it pure , love doesn't hurt, love doesn't change only a person change's and create the dark force on the word we call it love . we end up forgetting that love it doesn't liars, cheats, doesn't have an eyes and it doesn't have second thoughts only the mindset of the human changes. Being present to yourself gives you time to think and be more productive to your own life , life starts to be meaningful and you view things in different angles and perspectives. You begin to collect all the necessary tools and positive gears to chase the highest goals and be more courageous , determine, creativity most of all hunger to hit your goals as SAP.. The negative thinking, environment, surroundings it begins to make no impact on what you are about to tackle. If your level of thinking it begins to rich that level just now that Girl you rich the level of success instantly. Even if you haven't started yet but no what ever you put your mind in to you going to rock it. Everything we do as parents the kids see everything even if you hide your doing the kids knows that my mother is heartbroken and my mother is doing great to us.. I personally heard my daughter saying wow mother thank you for everything you doing for us you really trying actually you have done a lot... at that moment in time I nearly cried an said wow this 11 years old girl she really see's a lot in me than me realising that all the hard work it show's and I'm raising an amazing woman who's going to tackle the world more greater an powerful more than me . Women be your own mirror never for less look down on yourselves, let's turn the world around it doesn't matter how poor or rich you are life changes in the blink of an eye but that doesn't mean we have to look down on ourselves.