
We have been talking about training for a long time. What is training actually? Know it
Training means taking something from its initial stages to its end and fulfilling all its needs in all these stages.
Now, in all the stages that take place in the life of a child from birth to death, training is the name of guiding the child.
Psychologists and intellectuals say that training begins three years after the baby is born.
According to experts, the child comes into this world with 40 to 50% influence from the parents and their family, so in choosing a spouse, one should make a thoughtful decision by thinking beyond one's emotions and thinking about one's future.
Allah says:
Save yourselves and your children from the Fire whose fuel is men and stones.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
No father can give his children a better gift than to teach them good manners.
Parents have a right to their children to have a good name and to train them well. (Sahih Bukhari (Vol. 1, p. 222)
Hazrat Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
Teach your children literature, for on the Day of Resurrection you will be asked about your children, what kind of literature you taught them, and what knowledge you taught them.
The baby is like soft wet clay. The shape will be the same as the way we treat it. When mistakes are made, children should be trained wisely.
The first thing to be explained is that if he makes a mistake despite the advice and easy explanation, he should be reprimanded in solitude and told about the evil of this deed and told not to do it again. If they still do not stop, a little beating can be done.
This training method is for teenagers.
As the children get older, you can try harder. You can't beat a child at this time, but you can be detached so that he realizes his mistake.
If a child does a good deed, he should not hesitate to praise him for encouraging him. ۔
By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive.
Training includes love, compassion, correction, as well as rigor.
May Allah Almighty help the parents to fulfill their responsibilities towards their children in the best possible way.

