FEW COSTLY MISTAKES THAT CAN RUINE YOUR MARRIAGE OR RELATIONSHIP.. discover the secret and stop the blame game...

MOST COSTLY MISTAKES THAT RUIN RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE  .Discover the secrets for a peaceful home and stop the blame game …BRO. BENJAMIN HANMEZA.Introduction The number one source of stress amongst  humans is relationship.Over 90% of friction among humans revolves around this myth called relationship.Some of the itemized problems are as follow: Husbands and wives not understanding one another, parents not understanding their children. Children not getting along with their parents.  Pastors and members not being in agreement .  Members of the congregation hating one another.The masses not understanding their Leaders . Leaders not meeting up with the masses’ demands.The masses demanding too much from the leaders and never being grateful to them.Political party differences; politicians fighting themselves over a political position or interest and so on. Infact, relationship as a topic in general doubtlessly remains an inexhaustible topic to discuss no matter the time allocated for it. For the purpose of aim and emphasis however , I  will be dealing with relationships that have to do with dating, courtship and marriage. In a long term relationships , arguments are bound to happen . Husband and wife experience heated moments that sometimes lead to a raised voice. Yelling or shouting in a relationship is arguably natural to some extent. It is a human natural way of reacting to frustration. However, when people yelling at each other becomes a pattern or a habit in a relationship then there's a problem. For you to know it's not the greatest mistakes that take a relationship to a dead end as you may think .  It is those little things that you might ignor and give a def year to.Reading this book with your partner will be the greatest discovery that will help both of you develop a successful relationship or marriage .If ever had a broken relationship experience or your relationship is at the verge of dying and you can help it please reach this book at least once. Maybe yours is a marriage the ended up in divorce and you kept wondering of what to do to restore it  . You just need to read a copy of this book and it will help set you back on the track on the journey of a happy marriage and relationship again.Release your mind and impart your mind with knowledge and it will definitely profit you and your partner and probably  salvage that your dying marriage or relationship.1 . Yelling or shouting at your spouse or partner .Yelling is a topic that has meaning for everyone. All of us have raised our voices, probably more than once. An average African man or woman in most cases finds yelling as the best way of  orally expressing authority or hurtful feelings.  It is not quite rare to see human beings shouting or ranting at one another in their homes, offices, business centers , market squares etc. It is almost a normal thing especially for those in authority. I did not come from a home of screaming parents or siblings. However, I do see many families and couples who yell a lot at each other often including their children and the short and long-term consequences of regular yelling/screaming are not pretty. If you are experiencing this you may be wondering how yelling can be prevented in a relationship. Those  who experience yelling on a regular basis know what I’m talking about. If you are a casualty of yelling or   being yelled at , reading this book will guide you on how to get over it and its abysmal  effects.11 psychological effects of being yelled  or shouted at in a relationship.Arguments are bound to happen in long-term relationships. If you are married,  you and your partner will definitely have the occasional heated disagreements. But, there are psychological effects of being yelled at in a relationship, so how you conduct yourself when you’re frustrated matters.Have you ever divulged a recent fight with your spouse to your friends, only to be left feeling embarrassed? “Are we normal?” you might ask. “Is this toxic behavior that I somehow missed?”People yelling at one another  is often as a result of poor communication choices. When feeling overwhelmed and angry, the argument can escalate, and a raised voice can quickly follow.It may seem harmless, especially when followed by an immediate apologies . However below are the destructive psychological effects of being yelled or shouted at in a relationship .Depression might develop . One of the most common psychological effects of being yelled at in a relationship is the possibility of becoming depressed. The more you experience yelling and screaming in relationship, the more helpless you feel. You want to fix what’s happening between you and your spouse or partner ,but nothing seems to work. This helplessness can lead to persistent feelings of sadness and loss of interest in everyday life. Depression can lead to feelings of worthlessness, thoughts of self-harm and other risky things. If you have ever been depressed before you will understand that it is not easy . .