MOST COSTLY MISTAKES THAT RUIN RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE  .Discover the secrets for a peaceful home and stop the blame game …BRO. BENJAMIN HANMEZA.Introduction The number one source of stress amongst  humans is relationship.Over 90% of friction among humans revolves around this myth called relationship.Some of the itemized problems are as follow: Husbands and wives not understanding one another, parents not understanding their children. Children not getting along with their parents.  Pastors and members not being in agreement .  Members of the congregation hating one another.The masses not understanding their Leaders . Leaders not meeting up with the masses’ demands.The masses demanding too much from the leaders and never being grateful to them.Political party differences; politicians fighting themselves over a political position or interest and so on. Infact, relationship as a topic in general doubtlessly remains an inexhaustible topic to discuss no matter the time allocated for it. For the purpose of aim and emphasis however , I  will be dealing with relationships that have to do with dating, courtship and marriage. In a long term relationships , arguments are bound to happen . Husband and wife experience heated moments that sometimes lead to a raised voice. Yelling or shouting in a relationship is arguably natural to some extent. It is a human natural way of reacting to frustration. However, when people yelling at each other becomes a pattern or a habit in a relationship then there's a problem. For you to know it's not the greatest mistakes that take a relationship to a dead end as you may think .  It is those little things that you might ignor and give a def year to.Reading this book with your partner will be the greatest discovery that will help both of you develop a successful relationship or marriage .If ever had a broken relationship experience or your relationship is at the verge of dying and you can help it please reach this book at least once. Maybe yours is a marriage the ended up in divorce and you kept wondering of what to do to restore it  . You just need to read a copy of this book and it will help set you back on the track on the journey of a happy marriage and relationship again.Release your mind and impart your mind with knowledge and it will definitely profit you and your partner and probably  salvage that your dying marriage or relationship.1 . Yelling or shouting at your spouse or partner .Yelling is a topic that has meaning for everyone. All of us have raised our voices, probably more than once. An average African man or woman in most cases finds yelling as the best way of  orally expressing authority or hurtful feelings.  It is not quite rare to see human beings shouting or ranting at one another in their homes, offices, business centers , market squares etc. It is almost a normal thing especially for those in authority. I did not come from a home of screaming parents or siblings. However, I do see many families and couples who yell a lot at each other often including their children and the short and long-term consequences of regular yelling/screaming are not pretty. If you are experiencing this you may be wondering how yelling can be prevented in a relationship. Those  who experience yelling on a regular basis know what I’m talking about. If you are a casualty of yelling or   being yelled at , reading this book will guide you on how to get over it and its abysmal  effects.11 psychological effects of being yelled  or shouted at in a relationship.Arguments are bound to happen in long-term relationships. If you are married,  you and your partner will definitely have the occasional heated disagreements. But, there are psychological effects of being yelled at in a relationship, so how you conduct yourself when you’re frustrated matters.Have you ever divulged a recent fight with your spouse to your friends, only to be left feeling embarrassed? “Are we normal?” you might ask. “Is this toxic behavior that I somehow missed?”People yelling at one another  is often as a result of poor communication choices. When feeling overwhelmed and angry, the argument can escalate, and a raised voice can quickly follow.It may seem harmless, especially when followed by an immediate apologies . However below are the destructive psychological effects of being yelled or shouted at in a relationship .Depression might develop . One of the most common psychological effects of being yelled at in a relationship is the possibility of becoming depressed. The more you experience yelling and screaming in relationship, the more helpless you feel. You want to fix what’s happening between you and your spouse or partner ,but nothing seems to work. This helplessness can lead to persistent feelings of sadness and loss of interest in everyday life. Depression can lead to feelings of worthlessness, thoughts of self-harm and other risky things. If you have ever been depressed before you will understand that it is not easy . .

The English dictionary puts it thus about mistake. According to the English dictionary 'A mistake is an error, misjudgment, or incorrect action that results in an undesirable outcome, often caused by a lack of knowledge, experience, attention, or understanding. Mistakes can occur in various aspects of life, including personal, professional, social, and educational settings.Characteristics of Mistakes1. *Unintended consequences*: Mistakes often lead to unexpected and undesirable outcomes.2. *Error or inaccuracy*: Mistakes involve incorrect information, actions, or decisions.3. *Lack of knowledge or understanding*: Mistakes can result from inadequate knowledge, experience, or comprehension.4. *Correctable*: Mistakes can often be corrected or rectified, although some may have lasting consequences.Types of Mistakes1. *Cognitive mistakes*: Errors in thinking, judgment, or decision-making.2. *Procedural mistakes*: Errors in following established procedures or protocols.3. *Technical mistakes*: Errors in using tools, equipment, or technology.4. *Communication mistakes*: Errors in conveying information, leading to misunderstandings or misinterpretations.Learning from MistakesMistakes are never palatable to humans at all. No one likes making mistakes. We really hate making mistakes.We feel really bad when we make especially a silly mistake in the presence of people.It really irritates us when we make a mistake.If you ask an average learner in any field, whether he/she likes committing errors, if they're sincere enough to tell you they'll tell you they really hate it. However, I want you to know that mistake is a very powerful thing. Mistakes are very powerful in the sense that they either destroy or make you better . Every professional you see today and probably admire, once made mistakes. Success or excellence is the product of several corrected mistakes. In life, no one is above mistake. Mistakes can serve as valuable learning opportunities, allowing individuals to:1. *Gain new insights*: Understand what went wrong and how to improve.2. *Develop new skills*: Acquire skills or knowledge needed to avoid similar mistakes.3. *Improve decision-making*: Refine decision-making processes to minimize errors.4. *Build resilience*: Develop coping strategies and learn to bounce back from setbacks.By acknowledging and learning from mistakes, individuals can grow, improve, and become more effective in their personal and professional lives. I personally don't like making mistakes. I feel hurt been told that I'm wrong I how corrections has made me better so far. HOW TO BECOME BETTER AFTER MAKING A MISTAKE 1. Admit you made a mistake and take the responsibility of your mistake. Many people don't like admitting that they commit errors even if it's glaring in their faces. Admitting and being responsible for your mistakes helps you become personally better, and professional. Don't argue stuff around when you discover that you are wrong. Accept it no matter what. It's not foolishness it's rather a show of integrity. Many marriages and relationships get broken and scattered because of this reason, everyone claims to be correct when they're wrong. They claim they're right when they're actually wrong. In this case the blame game takes the lead. At this point quarrels and fight easily set in. 2. Be correctable... Most people are never correctable at all. cannot correct them when they are wrong. Becoming better after making mistakes requires a growth mindset, self-awareness, and a willingness to learn from errors. Here are some strategies to help you improve: 1. Acknowledge and accept your mistakes Recognize your errors, take responsibility, and avoid blaming others or making excuses. 2. Analyze and identify the root cause Reflect on the situation, and try to understand what led to the mistake. Identify the root cause to prevent similar errors in the future. 3. Learn from the experience Extract valuable lessons from your mistakes. Ask yourself: - What could I have done differently? - What skills or knowledge do I need to acquire? - How can I apply this experience to future situations? 4. Develop a growth mindset View mistakes as opportunities for growth and development. Believe that your abilities and intelligence can be improved through effort and learning. 5. Create an action plan Based on your analysis and lessons learned, create a plan to correct your mistakes and prevent similar errors in the future. 6. Seek feedback and support Ask for feedback from others, including mentors, colleagues, or friends. Be open to constructive criticism and use it to improve. 7. Practice self-compassion Treat yourself with kindness and understanding when you make mistakes. Avoid self-criticism and focus on learning from your errors. 8. Celebrate your progress. Acknowledge and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. Recognize that learning from mistakes is a process . 9. Be positively minded about the process.... .

The top was riddled with holes, leaving my brèasts clearly exposed, making it evident that I looked like a confirmed próstitute.Madam brought out a perfume from her bag, turned me around and sprayed it all over me."We are good to go. Now you're looking glamorous," Madam said as she asked one of them to apply makeup and pancakes on me. The process felt utterly irritating. When I looked in the mirror to check my appearance, I saw nothing but a wîtch staring back at me. But to them, that was exactly the look they wanted, so I fôrced myself to pretend it was okay.A pair of heavy silver high heels was handed to me along with a small purse before we descended the stairs. Along the pavement, I noticed others dressed similarly, moving back and forth. I only saw two men(approx 50yrs) on shorts and dark singlets both holding bottle of beer loitering have; the rest were women. I couldn't understand why men were so scarce in that building. Some women were leaving, while others were just arriving. Occasionally, a few would wave at Madam as we passed by till we got to another different car owned by madam. She unlocked the middle door and told me to go inside and sit. Two of the ladies sat behind me while one sat close to madam at the front and we drove off.We arrived at a place where the two girls parted ways with us. Madam carefully parked her car in their garage before leading me inside. Everything felt like a dream to me, as I was still doubting my eyes. An oyibo(white) man, dressed smartly in trousers and a long-sleeve shirt, who looked to be around sixty years old, emerged. Madam shook hands with him and leaned in to whisper something in his ear.Madam quickly turned to me and muttered "Uju Can't you greet!! Have you forgotten that you're here for business?!"Good evening sir. Sorry ma I forgot.""Evening." He responded. His English and voice was so fluent that one would think that he's from the United States."Mtcheeeww. Uju! Better respect yourself and treat your customer well. I don't want to hear nonsènse when I return." Madam said and left."Evening to you. You're looking stunning. Exactly my spec." He responded. I was silently praying on my mind that nothing stupîd should repeat itself again."You'll be spending the night with me today I believe you've been informed?" The man spoke as he came close giving me a spánk on my bûtt. I felt an overwhelming urge to slap him, but I held myself back, choosing instead to stare at the floor in silence."Follôw me!" he commanded. Reluctantly, I obeyed as we climbed the veranda stairs, which had over seven steps. He hailed some of his colleagues along the way. The man wasn't looking like someone that's poor. The surrounding alone could tell. He led me into a room, locked the door and sat me on the bed, and then, stripped himself completely náked. I began asking myself why an old man like him would be engáging in such barbaric activities."I believe you've had your bath," he said. I hummed in response, a reluctant acknowledgment, as it felt better than remaining silent. He then muttered something about coming back and rushed out, possibly to shower or take care of something—I had no idea. Within a few minutes, he returned, wiped his entire body with a white towel, hung it neatly in a corner, removed my gown leaving me náked. I had to use both hands to cover my brèasts due to shame.He pulled me over and started kîssing me, both of his hands were lócked behind my bûtt. I muttered irritably, turning my face away from him as his saliva smeared my lips. "I'm not in the mood, please. I don't slèep with men. Just stóp. How.... How can a grown up man like you do this to me...."He abruptly pulled back, his face twisting in ánger, before slápping me. "Oh, so now you're the one to tell me how to spend my money?" he shouted. "Do you have any idea hów much I paid just for this few minutes of pleasure? If you want to make this complicated, then be prepared for the consèquences!" But why me? I asked with a pitiful voice.I pleaded to see if he could allow me go without having sex with me but the more I tried to convince him to let me go the more it seemed to be triggering his anger towards me so I decided to keep quiet.At the same time I thought of how much he must paid my mama's friend for the deal.I never knew how much I was going to be paid for this deal I never cared to know because I never thought of such a shameful thing in my life. When the man mentioned how much he paid my mama friend I was amazed and I became afraid of making her lose such a huge amount of money because of me.I could not stand the burning anger in the old man's face and his stick was already stiff pointing 👉towards my direction anytime I spotted him. I never knew what came over me after looking at it on the third time. I became uncomfortable and started developing feelings towards the old man .I started pulling him to myself and.. follow bennyhanmezabee #Starywriting#

It was on a Friday night at a party when Angelina and Jasper met. Angelina and her friends were working down the party scene majestically when Jasper sighted her. Angelina beat was actually sparkling and as such Jasper could not hold back from approaching her and telling her how much he felt about her. let me take a little time to express and describe how beautiful dicks young lady was. she was tall and fair in complexion. She had a very beautiful body structure and her lovely pink lips were really tempting and captivating. Her eyes were very beautiful and sexy . Anyone who sees her would always want to touch her beautiful body structure . She was the center of attraction to everyone even in the party.

Here's a comprehensive overview of research on mosquitoes:Biology and Life Cycle1. Mosquitoes undergo a four-stage life cycle: egg, larva, pupa, and adult.2. Female mosquitoes lay eggs in standing water, which hatch into larvae within 2-3 days.3. Larvae feed on microorganisms and small particles, growing and molting several times.4. Adult mosquitoes emerge from the pupal stage, mate, and begin the cycle again.Feeding Behavior1. Female mosquitoes feed on blood to obtain protein for egg development.2. Male mosquitoes do not feed on blood, instead relying on nectar and other sugary substances.3. Mosquitoes use a variety of cues to locate hosts, including carbon dioxide, heat, and visual stimuli.Disease Transmission1. Mosquitoes are vectors for numerous diseases, including malaria, dengue fever, Zika virus, and yellow fever.2. Mosquitoes transmit diseases through the saliva they inject into hosts during feeding.3. The risk of disease transmission depends on various factors, including mosquito density, host behavior, and environmental conditions.Control and Prevention1. Mosquito control measures include eliminating standing water, using insecticides, and implementing integrated pest management (IPM) strategies.2. Personal protective equipment (PPE) such as insect repellents, clothing, and bed nets can help prevent mosquito bites.3. Vaccines and medications are available for some mosquito-borne diseases, such as yellow fever and malaria.Research Directions1. Genetic modification: Scientists are exploring genetic modification techniques to create mosquitoes that are unable to transmit diseases.2. Wolbachia: Researchers are investigating the use of Wolbachia, a bacterium that can reduce mosquito fertility and disease transmission.3. Artificial intelligence: AI-powered systems are being developed to monitor mosquito populations, predict disease outbreaks, and optimize control measures.Challenges and Opportunities1. Climate change: Rising temperatures and changing precipitation patterns are altering mosquito habitats and disease transmission dynamics.2. Urbanization: The growth of urban areas is creating new mosquito habitats and increasing the risk of disease transmission.3. Collaboration: Interdisciplinary research collaborations are essential for developing effective mosquito control strategies and addressing the complex challenges posed by mosquito-borne diseases.By continuing to advance our understanding of mosquito biology, behavior, and ecology, researchers can develop innovative solutions to prevent and control mosquito-borne diseases.Malaria parasites belong to the genus Plasmodium and are transmitted to humans through the bite of an infected female Anopheles mosquito. There are five species of Plasmodium that can infect humans:Species of Malaria Parasites1. *Plasmodium falciparum*: The most deadly and widespread species, responsible for the majority of malaria-related deaths.2. *Plasmodium vivax*: The most common species outside of Africa, causing milder symptoms but still posing a significant health risk.3. *Plasmodium ovale*: A relatively rare species, primarily found in West Africa.4. *Plasmodium malariae*: A species that can cause long-term infections and is often associated with nephrotic syndrome.5. *Plasmodium knowlesi*: A species typically found in macaques, but can also infect humans, particularly in Southeast Asia.Life Cycle of Malaria ParasitesThe life cycle of malaria parasites involves two hosts: the human and the mosquito.1. *Human host*: The parasite is transmitted to humans through the bite of an infected mosquito. The parasite then travels to the liver, where it multiplies and infects red blood cells.2. *Mosquito host*: When an infected human is bitten by a mosquito, the parasite is transmitted to the mosquito. The parasite then undergoes a series of developmental stages within the mosquito, eventually forming sporozoites that can infect humans.Symptoms and TreatmentMalaria symptoms can include fever, chills, flu-like symptoms, and in severe cases, organ failure and death. Treatment typically involves antimalarial medications, such as chloroquine or artemisinin-based combination therapies (ACTs).Prevention and ControlPrevention and control measures include:1. *Insecticide-treated bed nets*: Using bed nets treated with insecticides can significantly reduce the risk of malaria transmission.2. *Indoor residual spraying*: Spraying insecticides on walls and ceilings can help kill mosquitoes that rest indoors.3. *Mosquito breeding site elimination*: Eliminating standing water and other breeding sites can help reduce mosquito populations.4. *Personal protective equipment*: Using personal protective equipment, such as insect repellents and clothing, can help prevent mosquito bites.The use of mosquito nets can also help protect from mosquito bites and in turn reduce the spread of this deadly parasite by its vectors . Still water body....

Here's a comprehensive overview of research on mosquitoes:Biology and Life Cycle1. Mosquitoes undergo a four-stage life cycle: egg, larva, pupa, and adult.2. Female mosquitoes lay eggs in standing water, which hatch into larvae within 2-3 days.3. Larvae feed on microorganisms and small particles, growing and molting several times.4. Adult mosquitoes emerge from the pupal stage, mate, and begin the cycle again.Feeding Behavior1. Female mosquitoes feed on blood to obtain protein for egg development.2. Male mosquitoes do not feed on blood, instead relying on nectar and other sugary substances.3. Mosquitoes use a variety of cues to locate hosts, including carbon dioxide, heat, and visual stimuli.Disease Transmission1. Mosquitoes are vectors for numerous diseases, including malaria, dengue fever, Zika virus, and yellow fever.2. Mosquitoes transmit diseases through the saliva they inject into hosts during feeding.3. The risk of disease transmission depends on various factors, including mosquito density, host behavior, and environmental conditions.Control and Prevention1. Mosquito control measures include eliminating standing water, using insecticides, and implementing integrated pest management (IPM) strategies.2. Personal protective equipment (PPE) such as insect repellents, clothing, and bed nets can help prevent mosquito bites.3. Vaccines and medications are available for some mosquito-borne diseases, such as yellow fever and malaria.Research Directions1. Genetic modification: Scientists are exploring genetic modification techniques to create mosquitoes that are unable to transmit diseases.2. Wolbachia: Researchers are investigating the use of Wolbachia, a bacterium that can reduce mosquito fertility and disease transmission.3. Artificial intelligence: AI-powered systems are being developed to monitor mosquito populations, predict disease outbreaks, and optimize control measures.Challenges and Opportunities1. Climate change: Rising temperatures and changing precipitation patterns are altering mosquito habitats and disease transmission dynamics.2. Urbanization: The growth of urban areas is creating new mosquito habitats and increasing the risk of disease transmission.3. Collaboration: Interdisciplinary research collaborations are essential for developing effective mosquito control strategies and addressing the complex challenges posed by mosquito-borne diseases.By continuing to advance our understanding of mosquito biology, behavior, and ecology, researchers can develop innovative solutions to prevent and control mosquito-borne diseases.Malaria parasites belong to the genus Plasmodium and are transmitted to humans through the bite of an infected female Anopheles mosquito. There are five species of Plasmodium that can infect humans:Species of Malaria Parasites1. *Plasmodium falciparum*: The most deadly and widespread species, responsible for the majority of malaria-related deaths.2. *Plasmodium vivax*: The most common species outside of Africa, causing milder symptoms but still posing a significant health risk.3. *Plasmodium ovale*: A relatively rare species, primarily found in West Africa.4. *Plasmodium malariae*: A species that can cause long-term infections and is often associated with nephrotic syndrome.5. *Plasmodium knowlesi*: A species typically found in macaques, but can also infect humans, particularly in Southeast Asia.Life Cycle of Malaria ParasitesThe life cycle of malaria parasites involves two hosts: the human and the mosquito.1. *Human host*: The parasite is transmitted to humans through the bite of an infected mosquito. The parasite then travels to the liver, where it multiplies and infects red blood cells.2. *Mosquito host*: When an infected human is bitten by a mosquito, the parasite is transmitted to the mosquito. The parasite then undergoes a series of developmental stages within the mosquito, eventually forming sporozoites that can infect humans.Symptoms and TreatmentMalaria symptoms can include fever, chills, flu-like symptoms, and in severe cases, organ failure and death. Treatment typically involves antimalarial medications, such as chloroquine or artemisinin-based combination therapies (ACTs).Prevention and ControlPrevention and control measures include:1. *Insecticide-treated bed nets*: Using bed nets treated with insecticides can significantly reduce the risk of malaria transmission.2. *Indoor residual spraying*: Spraying insecticides on walls and ceilings can help kill mosquitoes that rest indoors.3. *Mosquito breeding site elimination*: Eliminating standing water and other breeding sites can help reduce mosquito populations.4. *Personal protective equipment*: Using personal protective equipment, such as insect repellents and clothing, can help prevent mosquito bites.The use of mosquito nets can also help protect from mosquito bites and in turn reduce the spread of this deadly parasite by its vectors . Still water body....

Here's a comprehensive overview of research on mosquitoes:Biology and Life Cycle1. Mosquitoes undergo a four-stage life cycle: egg, larva, pupa, and adult.2. Female mosquitoes lay eggs in standing water, which hatch into larvae within 2-3 days.3. Larvae feed on microorganisms and small particles, growing and molting several times.4. Adult mosquitoes emerge from the pupal stage, mate, and begin the cycle again.Feeding Behavior1. Female mosquitoes feed on blood to obtain protein for egg development.2. Male mosquitoes do not feed on blood, instead relying on nectar and other sugary substances.3. Mosquitoes use a variety of cues to locate hosts, including carbon dioxide, heat, and visual stimuli.Disease Transmission1. Mosquitoes are vectors for numerous diseases, including malaria, dengue fever, Zika virus, and yellow fever.2. Mosquitoes transmit diseases through the saliva they inject into hosts during feeding.3. The risk of disease transmission depends on various factors, including mosquito density, host behavior, and environmental conditions.Control and Prevention1. Mosquito control measures include eliminating standing water, using insecticides, and implementing integrated pest management (IPM) strategies.2. Personal protective equipment (PPE) such as insect repellents, clothing, and bed nets can help prevent mosquito bites.3. Vaccines and medications are available for some mosquito-borne diseases, such as yellow fever and malaria.Research Directions1. Genetic modification: Scientists are exploring genetic modification techniques to create mosquitoes that are unable to transmit diseases.2. Wolbachia: Researchers are investigating the use of Wolbachia, a bacterium that can reduce mosquito fertility and disease transmission.3. Artificial intelligence: AI-powered systems are being developed to monitor mosquito populations, predict disease outbreaks, and optimize control measures.Challenges and Opportunities1. Climate change: Rising temperatures and changing precipitation patterns are altering mosquito habitats and disease transmission dynamics.2. Urbanization: The growth of urban areas is creating new mosquito habitats and increasing the risk of disease transmission.3. Collaboration: Interdisciplinary research collaborations are essential for developing effective mosquito control strategies and addressing the complex challenges posed by mosquito-borne diseases.By continuing to advance our understanding of mosquito biology, behavior, and ecology, researchers can develop innovative solutions to prevent and control mosquito-borne diseases.Several species of mosquitoes can transmit diseases to humans. Here are some of the most common disease-transmitting mosquitoes:Female Mosquitoes1. *Aedes aegypti*: Transmits dengue fever, Zika virus, yellow fever, and chikungunya.2. *Aedes albopictus*: Transmits dengue fever, Zika virus, and chikungunya.3. *Anopheles*: Transmits malaria.4. *Culex*: Transmits West Nile virus, Japanese encephalitis, and filariasis.Diseases Transmitted by Mosquitoes1. Malaria2. Dengue fever3. Zika virus4. Yellow fever5. Chikungunya6. West Nile virus7. Japanese encephalitis8. FilariasisPreventing Mosquito-Borne Diseases1. Use insecticide-treated bed nets.2. Wear protective clothing and apply insect repellents.3. Eliminate standing water around homes to prevent mosquito breeding.4. Use air conditioning or screened windows to prevent mosquito entry.5. Get vaccinated against diseases like yellow fever and Japanese encephalitis.Remember, preventing mosquito bites is key to avoiding mosquito-borne diseases.[12/14, 12:23] Meta AI: Malaria parasites belong to the genus Plasmodium and are transmitted to humans through the bite of an infected female Anopheles mosquito. There are five species of Plasmodium that can infect humans:Species of Malaria Parasites1. *Plasmodium falciparum*: The most deadly and widespread species, responsible for the majority of malaria-related deaths.2. *Plasmodium vivax*: The most common species outside of Africa, causing milder symptoms but still posing a significant health risk.3. *Plasmodium ovale*: A relatively rare species, primarily found in West Africa.4. *Plasmodium malariae*: A species that can cause long-term infections and is often associated with nephrotic syndrome.5. *Plasmodium knowlesi*: A species typically found in macaques, but can also infect humans, particularly in Southeast Asia.Life Cycle of Malaria ParasitesThe life cycle of malaria parasites involves two hosts: the human and the mosquito.1. *Human host*: The parasite is transmitted to humans through the bite of an infected mosquito. The parasite then travels to the liver, where it multiplies and infects red blood cells.2. *Mosquito host*: When an infected human is bitten by a mosquito, the parasite is transmitted to the mosquito. The parasite then undergoes a series of developmental stages within the mosquito, eventually forming ......

MOST COSTLY MISTAKES THAT RUIN RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE  .Discover the secrets for a peaceful home and stop the blame game …BRO. BENJAMIN HANMEZA.Introduction The number one source of stress amongst  humans is relationship.Over 90% of friction among humans revolves around this myth called relationship.Some of the itemized problems are as follow: Husbands and wives not understanding one another, parents not understanding their children. Children not getting along with their parents.  Pastors and members not being in agreement .  Members of the congregation hating one another.The masses not understanding their Leaders . Leaders not meeting up with the masses’ demands.The masses demanding too much from the leaders and never being grateful to them.Political party differences; politicians fighting themselves over a political position or interest and so on. Infact, relationship as a topic in general doubtlessly remains an inexhaustible topic to discuss no matter the time allocated for it. For the purpose of aim and emphasis however , I  will be dealing with relationships that have to do with dating, courtship and marriage. In a long term relationships , arguments are bound to happen . Husband and wife experience heated moments that sometimes lead to a raised voice. Yelling or shouting in a relationship is arguably natural to some extent. It is a human natural way of reacting to frustration. However, when people yelling at each other becomes a pattern or a habit in a relationship then there's a problem. For you to know it's not the greatest mistakes that take a relationship to a dead end as you may think .  It is those little things that you might ignor and give a def year to.Reading this book with your partner will be the greatest discovery that will help both of you develop a successful relationship or marriage .If ever had a broken relationship experience or your relationship is at the verge of dying and you can help it please reach this book at least once. Maybe yours is a marriage the ended up in divorce and you kept wondering of what to do to restore it  . You just need to read a copy of this book and it will help set you back on the track on the journey of a happy marriage and relationship again.Release your mind and impart your mind with knowledge and it will definitely profit you and your partner and probably  salvage that your dying marriage or relationship.1 . Yelling or shouting at your spouse or partner .Yelling is a topic that has meaning for everyone. All of us have raised our voices, probably more than once. An average African man or woman in most cases finds yelling as the best way of  orally expressing authority or hurtful feelings.  It is not quite rare to see human beings shouting or ranting at one another in their homes, offices, business centers , market squares etc. It is almost a normal thing especially for those in authority. I did not come from a home of screaming parents or siblings. However, I do see many families and couples who yell a lot at each other often including their children and the short and long-term consequences of regular yelling/screaming are not pretty. If you are experiencing this you may be wondering how yelling can be prevented in a relationship. Those  who experience yelling on a regular basis know what I’m talking about. If you are a casualty of yelling or   being yelled at , reading this book will guide you on how to get over it and its abysmal  effects.11 psychological effects of being yelled  or shouted at in a relationship.Arguments are bound to happen in long-term relationships. If you are married,  you and your partner will definitely have the occasional heated disagreements. But, there are psychological effects of being yelled at in a relationship, so how you conduct yourself when you’re frustrated matters.Have you ever divulged a recent fight with your spouse to your friends, only to be left feeling embarrassed? “Are we normal?” you might ask. “Is this toxic behavior that I somehow missed?”People yelling at one another  is often as a result of poor communication choices. When feeling overwhelmed and angry, the argument can escalate, and a raised voice can quickly follow.It may seem harmless, especially when followed by an immediate apologies . However below are the destructive psychological effects of being yelled or shouted at in a relationship .Depression might developOne of the most common psychological effects of being yelled at in a relationship is the possibility of becoming depressed. The more you experience yelling and screaming in relationship, the more helpless you feel. You want to fix what’s happening between you and your spouse or partner ,but nothing seems to work. This helplessness can lead to persistent feelings of sadness and loss of interest in everyday life. Depression can lead to feelings of worthlessness, thoughts of self-harm....

Once upon a time, animals organized a picnic party and Mr Owl also happened to be one of the attendees of the party. Mr Owl was known for his passionate affection towards people , hence anytime anyone is sick or injured he would come and offer some first aid treatments to them. This nice gesture demonstrated by Mr Owl earned him a name "Dr Owl".Most people never liked addressing him asMr Owl but rather call him doctor Owl. Also in the picnic party were other animals like Mr. Tortise 🐢 Rabbit 🐇 Spider 🕷 Snail 🐌 Bee 🐝 Ant 🐜 Catapiller 🐛 Dove 🕊 Crab 🦀 and so on.Every animal apart from Dr. Owl present a delicious meal to the picnic event .Mr. Rabbit baked a very delicious cake 🎂 .Tortise made meatpie 🍖 that really tasted nice. Spider brought sausages and samosa. Mr. Snail made burgers and fries 🍟 Mr. Bee baked bread. Mr. Dove brought ice cream ❄ Mr Ant 🐜 brought fried eggs 🍝Mr Catapiller🐛 brought yoghurt and some other drinks. Mr. Crab 🦀 brought plantain chips and some beverages. Other animals who also in attendance brought variety of food as well as drinks.It was indeed a congestion of food and confections that day. Food was everywhere. According to the animals, anyone whose meal tastes more sweeter than the rest will go home with a prize. Dr. Owl chosen to be the one to taste all the food and drinks. He stood up and gave a command for all food and drinks to be brought inside a particular room within the party premises and they did so. Dr. went inside and shut the door behind him and sat down on the floor and started eating drinking hurriedly out of all the food and drinks. A few minutes later, he fell down and collapsed due overfeeding. The party was going with a serious music and dancing. After an hour later , Mr Rabbit reminded the officials of the party to go check what was actually going on with Dr. Owl in the room. Mr. Tuttle and Rat whose were also part of the official cabinets left immediately running into the room where Dr. Owl was. Mr. Turtle was in front but could not get there at the same time with rat due to it sluggish nature. Mr. Rat spotted doctor Owl lying on the flow with his face and stomach facing towards the roof . His stomach swell up like an air - filled balloon looking so tired and pitiful. His mouth was messed up like a monkey's mouth with the food. His clothes became soaked in the drinks that he took . His eye balls became reddish in color and was panting like a dying deer so helplessly. Oh what a greedy doctor ! turtise and rat exclaimed concurrently. 🐸🙈🙊 Turtle and Rat ran back and told the news to everyone in the party. This news brought a great silence and a gripping fear to everyone. Mr. DJ Dove paused the music and the hot dace immediately and asked everyone to rush to where Dr. Owl was lying down. When they all arrived the scene of the incident they heard Dr. Owl making a tiny and pitiful cough 'koho ..koho...koho′ still lying down on the bare floor. Mr. Owl was taken to the hospital to be resuscitated back to normalcy. The party's initial vibes and joy just went down cold . Everyone except Mr. Rabbit sadly went home thinking about Dr. Owl condition. Mr. Owl ended up be treated in hospital instead of him treating others. What a shameful thing for Dr Owl to do ! 1.what happened to Dr Owl in the hospital? 2.what did he do when retuned from the hospital? 3.what Mr Rabbit did with the party's stuff behind everyone? We'll look at it next time .. THINGS KILLING YOUR PRAYER LIFE. 1. Excessive eating: Eating more than necessary at night will only weaken your body. 2. Sleep: You must train body to sleep less and stay awake. Sleep drain your strength to pray. The truth is, some sleep is an attack. 3. Filthiness of the spirit and soul: Pornography, sex chat and impure thoughts are killers of prayer stamina. Your inner man would always be defeated by feeding your spirit man with filthy and erotic content. 4. Bad atmosphere: Atmosphere you create and find yourself matter a lot. If you're among prayer weaklings, gossip and carnal believers your prayer fire will die. Gossip and backbite would frustrate you. 5. Poor feeding of your inner man. If your spirit man isn't well fed you can't be a prayer champion. You don't listen to sermons, you hardly study the  word or Christian articles then your prayer life will be starved to death. 6. Worry: No worrier becomes a prayer warrior. Kill your worry to give life to you prayer stamina and fervency, pray hardly .. 7. Distraction through watching TV, addiction to social media and boyfriend or girlfriend syndrome. Work on your prayer life People think that praying long, praying hard, praying loud, praying with many deep words will get God's attention, it doesn't. Let me tell you what prayer is like. It's like coming in a courtroom. When you go to the courtroom, have you ever heard the judge say "get to the point", in other words, you babbling all that stuff about..  You come to get your laws and