THE POWER OF MISTAKES ....becoming a better you after the mistakes....

The English dictionary puts it thus about mistake. According to the English dictionary 'A mistake is an error, misjudgment, or incorrect action that results in an undesirable outcome, often caused by a lack of knowledge, experience, attention, or understanding. Mistakes can occur in various aspects of life, including personal, professional, social, and educational settings.Characteristics of Mistakes1. *Unintended consequences*: Mistakes often lead to unexpected and undesirable outcomes.2. *Error or inaccuracy*: Mistakes involve incorrect information, actions, or decisions.3. *Lack of knowledge or understanding*: Mistakes can result from inadequate knowledge, experience, or comprehension.4. *Correctable*: Mistakes can often be corrected or rectified, although some may have lasting consequences.Types of Mistakes1. *Cognitive mistakes*: Errors in thinking, judgment, or decision-making.2. *Procedural mistakes*: Errors in following established procedures or protocols.3. *Technical mistakes*: Errors in using tools, equipment, or technology.4. *Communication mistakes*: Errors in conveying information, leading to misunderstandings or misinterpretations.Learning from MistakesMistakes are never palatable to humans at all. No one likes making mistakes. We really hate making mistakes.We feel really bad when we make especially a silly mistake in the presence of people.It really irritates us when we make a mistake.If you ask an average learner in any field, whether he/she likes committing errors, if they're sincere enough to tell you they'll tell you they really hate it.

However, I want you to know that mistake is a very powerful thing.

Mistakes are very powerful in the sense that they either destroy or make you better .

Every professional you see today and probably admire, once made mistakes. Success or excellence is the product of several corrected mistakes.

In life, no one is above mistake.

Mistakes can serve as valuable learning opportunities, allowing individuals to:1. *Gain new insights*: Understand what went wrong and how to improve.2. *Develop new skills*: Acquire skills or knowledge needed to avoid similar mistakes.3. *Improve decision-making*: Refine decision-making processes to minimize errors.4. *Build resilience*: Develop coping strategies and learn to bounce back from setbacks.By acknowledging and learning from mistakes, individuals can grow, improve, and become more effective in their personal and professional lives.

I personally don't like making mistakes. I feel hurt been told that I'm wrong I how corrections has made me better so far.

HOW TO BECOME BETTER AFTER MAKING A MISTAKE

1. Admit you made a mistake and take the responsibility of your mistake. Many people don't like admitting that they commit errors even if it's glaring in their faces. Admitting and being responsible for your mistakes helps you become personally better, and professional. Don't argue stuff around when you discover that you are wrong. Accept it no matter what. It's not foolishness it's rather a show of integrity.

Many marriages and relationships get broken and scattered because of this reason, everyone claims to be correct when they're wrong. They claim they're right when they're actually wrong. In this case the blame game takes the lead. At this point quarrels and fight easily set in.

2. Be correctable...

Most people are never correctable at all.

cannot correct them when they are wrong. Becoming better after making mistakes requires a growth mindset, self-awareness, and a willingness to learn from errors. Here are some strategies to help you improve:

1. Acknowledge and accept your mistakes

Recognize your errors, take responsibility, and avoid blaming others or making excuses.

2. Analyze and identify the root cause

Reflect on the situation, and try to understand what led to the mistake. Identify the root cause to prevent similar errors in the future.

3. Learn from the experience

Extract valuable lessons from your mistakes. Ask yourself:

- What could I have done differently?

- What skills or knowledge do I need to acquire?

- How can I apply this experience to future situations?

4. Develop a growth mindset

View mistakes as opportunities for growth and development. Believe that your abilities and intelligence can be improved through effort and learning.

5. Create an action plan

Based on your analysis and lessons learned, create a plan to correct your mistakes and prevent similar errors in the future.

6. Seek feedback and support

Ask for feedback from others, including mentors, colleagues, or friends. Be open to constructive criticism and use it to improve.

7. Practice self-compassion

Treat yourself with kindness and understanding when you make mistakes. Avoid self-criticism and focus on learning from your errors.

8. Celebrate your progress.

Acknowledge and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. Recognize that learning from mistakes is a process .

9. Be positively minded about the process.... .