The Character And Principles Of Love,

In a world of dreams and fantasies, lived a young man whose intentions was to be somewhere where all that matters was love and it's principles..

Justin a 19 year old gentleman,a teenager lived in Zambia with his parents who ensured and strived to provide the very best of living and needs to their son who was alone by the time.

one morning as Justin woke up, preparing to attend school, something flashed in his mind, oh my God, am growing up and my mom and dad are still monitoring me like a child, no freedom of movement by myself, all I do is to eat, sleep, wake up and go to school then later in the day throw myself at my desk in the studying room and study and read a dozen of books and school work, this thought kept on coming in his mind time to time, he thought; wouldn't it be good if I start exploring the benefits of love and it's principles??

Oh yeah that wasn't so bad he thought, well something whispered softly inside his mind and said"Hey Justin why don't you do that quickly after all your best friend (Emmanuel) has already experienced how it feels to be in the world of love especially with a lady you love."

Oh wow he said, precisely that's the best way to go about it after all am a human being, am no longer getting younger,and growing day by day, I might end up being a coward to face a lady if I continue like this..

Well then if this is the best way to go about it, wouldn't it be nice if I firstly started by doing a study about how love and it's principles work together..? 💕 oh yeah that would be very nice he said.

One Afternoon When he was with his colleagues at school, this same thought flashed back on his mind without hesitation, he straightforwardly asked Emmanuel and his other friends a question, one that kept troubling him almost every day,

"Hey buddy, can I ask you something..?"

Oh haha wow Of course buddy you can, come on we're your friends and besides, we're here to help each other..!!!!!"

Aaron Said joyously.....

"Yeah Aaron here is right, we all are here to help each other bro! cam' on what is it that's bothering you mahn ahh, hey buddy bring it up we talk about it my guy..." Gerald Said...

Well then I have been thinking lately about how it would feel like if I got a hot girl, grab her waist, walk softly in the corridors of school, sit together on the sea shore and feel the cool breeze of nature by myself all alone, away from the monitoring of my parents.

"Hahahaha" Oh wow Gerald laughed sweetly and said, "hey my guy, you can manage to do that, but first you must understand what love is all about, what power it has, and it's guiding principles, when you do that, hey everything will be alright and that which you think is a fantasy, will be a reality because love is real and it does exist.

Justin, sitting there quietly listening to his friends talking, was much interested in getting the concept of how love Tends to make one behave and what the principles of it are...

"Hey buddy, You should be present to the love in your life, strive for a more awaken way of life...,"Emmanuel said

Justin Looked puzzled and confused, looked at him with a troubled face and said,

"Hey my guy, your point seems powerful, but I have not gotten the concept of what you recently said."

"Haha wow I know right, he marvelled,

as he went on to say, my guy life requires that you live with it in the present and not trying to make it live itself, you are in charge of yourself,be with the person you love, and remember that there are always challenges to building a successful relationship."

hey buddy that was so amazing of you, so you mean I should be able to handle problems that will be arising from the affair(s)?Yeah of course love doesn't just come on a silver plate,true love comes with huge problems which requires that you are emotionally, physically and mentally well and fit enough to handle every challenge that comes up.

Oh yeah that was so great Emmanuel, that's so nice.

and ummm I think I too have something to say.. ,. Said Gerald with a smiley face

"Listen, Listen, Listen, the only best way of becoming a good listener is to always remember that you care more about your partner's point of view.."

Good communication and listening skills contributes significantly more than anything to the building of a relationship, when you give chance to your partner's talks, you show that you care and that you value them more than you value yourself...

Hey buddy, Justin Remember, Good listening shows that you are equally giving your attention to the person, this too helps in the building up of the newly started affair...

Hey Bro!!!! I'm really excited to hear that...

Justin Said joyously...

"I have come to learn that love requires one with good communication skills, equally In the form of talking, you must be the centre of interest, one who always comforts when there seems to be no cooperation, Living in the present also encourages the reality of love life and how it best works. !!!!!!!!!!!"